"Bottom line is, even if you see them coming,
you're not ready for the big moments.
No one asks for their life to change, not really. But it does.
So what are we, helpless? Puppets? No.
The big moments are going to come, you can't help that.
It's what you do afterwards that counts.
That's when you find out who you are." -- as written by Joss Whedon
