Christmas Eve
Merry Christmas to all of you (all three of you).

Well, the Australians put on a great show. The Royal Navy showband was the opener. If you ever saw The Commitments, you have an idea of how it went. Think "Australian Soul". Lots of Motown, a great horn section, backup singers, light show, the whole bag of gerbils. It was fortunate that I received a set of good gloves and ear warmers from my Mother in the mail today, as it was pretty cold, and windy, and near a lake. About halfway through the show, we could hear the .50 calibre machine guns on the perimeter, and gunships flew overhead soon after. So much for my "one day of peace on Earth" theory.

There has got to be a better way to save the world.

Tomorrow will be mostly just another work day out here, except fot better food at the dining hall, and the Aussies will repeat their performance. Angry Anderson still has his famous stage presence, and holds a crowd better than any man under 5 feet tall that I have ever seen. He was backed by a group called Kitara, who was a very tight group.

On the way back from the show, I was thinking about my own days in the music business. There are times that I really miss performing. I still write music, and I occasionally perform, but taking the stage with your band, for your show, with an audience that paid their own money to come hear you, that's more addictive, and more satisfying, that just about anything I have experienced.

NOTE: The following is blatant nostalgia, and has nothing to do with Christmas, or Baghdad, and bery little to do with poetry. All readers that have no interest in my past, or my waxing nostalgic, should eject IMMEDIATELY.

Back in the days of my misspent youth, I was extremely serious about my future music career. I attended a School of Performing Arts, I practiced for hours a day, and played any instrument I could grab. I didn't write much, because I hadn't really had any life experience, and didn't really understand the mechanics and science of music yet. But I could sing, and I could play a lot of instruments in a lot of different styles. Additionally, though I was (and obviously still am) rather shy in person, I could perform on stage without choking. Consequently, I fronted more than my share of rock and roll garage bands. There was even a brief period as an adult that I supported my family of four as a musician, which is an accomplishment in itself. You will not find me in your local music store, though, as I managed to keep my name off anything that was recorded. I did work with some fine musicians, though, some of whom have gone on to be respected recording artists, and whose names you would see in your local music stor, or even in your own CD collection.

So why did I get out? It was a priorities thing. I illustrate it thusly. I have spent my entire life in, around, and making music, but I can't dance. When you are they man behind the guitar or the drums or the microphone, you don't get to dance. You don't get a lot of other things that happen on the listening side of music, either, like meeting someone and falling in love, or talking about the impact of the music on your emotions after it is over, or going home from the concert with memories and stories for your friends. When you finish a gig, you pack your gear, go grab a bite with the other guys in the band, and go rest up for the next show. After a while, I found that I wanted something more.

Another problem was the business end. I, like many musicians, love to play, and love to write, and love to feel the reactions of the audience, but I don't love planning marketing of my latest album, or deciding where I will tour based on the promotional value of the venue. I don't like contracts, or copyrights, or intellectual property arrangements. But those things have to be handled, and if you don't handle those things yourself, then you put yourself at the mercy of the kind of people that DO like dealing with those type of things. At worst, you end up losing your shirt, and Michael Jackson owns every song you ever wrote. At best, you lose touch with reality, because other people are doing the things you don't like to do, and you get used to never having to deal with anything you don't like. you have heard enough stories to know what I mean.

So I left the music scene. I still think about it now and again. I also remember a quote from Janice Joplin. She once said, "Every night, I make love to ten thousand people, and then I go to bed alone." That quote, which she said only days before her death, reminds me of the cost I decided I wasn't willing to pay. When I see Mrs. E. Poet, and the little poetlings, I am convinced I made the right choice.

Having said that, I wish you all a Merry Christmas. We in Baghdad will be thinking of you, and even envying you a little. Not a lot, actually, but a bit. I'll discuss that concept a bit more next time.

A Moment, a Deep Breath, and ... German coffee?
Well, when the press conference ended (see below), things got rather busy. Over a week later, I now find time to sit down and write.

I really wish I could tell you more about why we were so busy. Look me up in another 20 years.

In the interim, we are making our preparations for Christmas in the desert. Little plastic faux-evergreens are springing up all over, decorated with whatever the associated organisation can find. My personal favorite is out at an area called Range 54. They have a 60-foot cedar, dug up and transplanted. They had a soldier suspended from a crane hang lights, and it is decorated with pieces of uniforms, body armour, and stuff from home.

The Chaplains, as one would expect, are working overtime. We received a visit from the Archbishop of the Archdiocese for the Military Services. I didn't even know there was an Archdiocese for the Military Services. Those guys think of everything, don't they? Additionally, the American Army has a band out here, and they have broken up into small groups and are playing holiday music. No dreidle songs, unfortunately, but a good mix of hymns and modern secular holiday tunes that the masses seem to enjoy. I think it is the effort, more than anything else, that we appreciate.

So, with the dust settling just a bit, I am taking a minute to have a cup of German coffee (we seem to get most of our non-essential supplies from friends and relatives in Germany. Wenn die deutschen Leute nicht im Krieg sein konnen, konnen sie ruhig den Kaffee fur den Krieg senden.) and putting some thoughts down.

There is a feast scheduled for Christmas Day, which will be a welcome relief from the usual fare. There is an ongoing football tournament, which I anticipate the Australians will take a commanding lead of before the month is out, and someone has organised a league for "touch rugby". I am not sure how one plays touch rugby, but it sounds like a lark. The event to which I look forward, though, is the Christmas Day party being hosted by the Australians. The headline performer is Angry Anderson, which in itself promises a great show. He is being backed by some other groups as well, though. It should be a great morale booster for all.

Well, time is again running short. I'll get back again soon. Hopefully tomorrow I will have a bit of respite and go at greater length.

Ace in the Hole
Earlier today I received the news, along with a large number of Coalition forces, that Saddam Hussein has been captured. He was hiding in a hole in a basement in Tikrit. He appears to have lost quite a bit of weight, looks somewhat worn, has a substantial grey beard, and didn't really put up much of a fight.

Celebratory gunfire has already begun. We expect it to continue through the night and into the next day. We will be wearing helmets whenever we go outdoors, since the celebratory bullets still hurt as much as the hostile kind.

Don't expect anything here that you won't see in the news eventually, but this does bring up an interesting question or two. For one, who runs the tribunal? Knowing the American and British forces and their leaders, they aren't just going to hand him over to The Hague and leave it at that. On the other hand, keeping him in the area is not a good idea. No doubt there will be a military tribunal, likely composed of a cross-section of the Coalition and headed by either Ambassador Bremmer, LG Sanchez, or a member of the ruling council, perhaps Mr. Talibani.

We have broken out the last pound of Starbucks, and are settling in to listen to the press conference. I'll come back to the discussion afterward.

A Quick Note
I am, indeed, still alive. I am also still in Baghdad.

I just hit month number 5 of the 12-hour, seven day work schedule. I can see some light at the end of the tunnel, though. There is every possibility that, if I don't stop a bullet or try to absorb any shrapnel, I will be home early next year.

I posted a new poem today. I was walking back from dinner and was thinking about Mrs. E. Poet, of whom you read very little here. Not that there isn't volumes to write about her. She is truly a remarkable woman. But I have a deep respect for privacy, and I will not violate hers without discussing it with her carefully.

But I digress.

I was thinking about Mrs. E. Poet, and how much I wish I could do more for her. She inspires me to be a better man than I would be otherwise. I rather lack ambition in some ways, which sounds odd coming from someone that claims to save the world for a living. It's hard to explain, but I will bring it up again one day.

As I was walking and thinking, I have no idea why, but I thought, "If she were a rose, I would like to be her sky. I would like to nurture her and help her to grow." That is where the newest poem started.

I don't think I have ever discussed the process of writing here. That is another topic I will touch on soon. for now, though, I am out of time.

Gratitude
Thanksgiving was indeed celebrated in Baghdad, as many of you have no doubt heard.

Interesting concept, that. I have, over the years, become rather enamoured with the idea of a day set aside for the purposes of gratitude. It is true that the day was once a uniquely American celebration. It was a rememberance of the fact that the first European settlers in that wild land did not die out, as they should have, but were instead aided by sympathetic aboriginals.

The celebration seems to have evolved over time, as many do, into a more generic celebration of gratitude as a concept. It retains the religious overtones, to a certain extent, but I have never known anyone to reject the observance of it for that reason.

And so, now that things have settled back into a rhythm here, I have a moment to write, and gratitude is what comes to mind. I have much for which I am grateful. Primarily, I continue to sruvive my most recent business trip. No small feat, that, and I owe a great deal to those I came here to assist. In that way, we take care of each other.

Additionally, I have not failed in my mission. I am grateful to numerous people, on a few different continents, for that. My work requires a great deal of coordinated effort, and I have had to call in the middle of someone's night or weekend on more than one occasion to have one issue or another "handled". I am fairly certain none of those people will be reading this, but I am grateful to them all the same.

My family is a constant source of strength and inspiration. My Faith is, as well. The various mentors I have had helped me to be able to do the work I now pursue. My close friends, though not numerous, have been loyal and comforting. For all of these, I am thankful.

I would be remiss, and a poor host indeed, if I did not mention you, the readers that have encouraged me to write. If not for some of you, the entries here would be even less frequent than they are now. And so I thank you, all half-dozen of you, for the motivation you have given me. As you have shown an interest in what I have to say, for whatever reason, I will do my best not to let you down.

Thank you.

There are times, and then there are Times
Once in a while, the hours and the days build up, and I start to get tired. I get to that point, now and then, where I start thinking of a nice, normal job, or perhaps still saving the world, but in not such an active, people-shooting-at-you and leaving-everyone-you-care-about sort of way. Perhaps I would be a decent teacher of mathematics, or go into social work. Maybe I could hold some public office, or work for an environmental organization.

Then something like this comes along. Please make sure to read down to the bottom. If you are pressed for time, look here first, then get back to the other story later.

I do not remember if I ever met CSM Blankenbecler, but it is possible, as I spent a good amount of time in Killeen, TX, USA, at the military installation on which he served, and some of that time was within the last 8 months. He has the distinction of being the most senior of the enlisted personnel killed here in Iraq. He leaves behind a widow and a daughter still in high school, as well as other adult children. He was 40 years old. Also killed in the attack was PFC Analaura Esparza-Gutierrez, 21.

I hear these reports every day. I hear about them from many countries. Sometimes the weapons are sophisticated, and sometimes it is a man with a sword, or with a rocket launcher on a donkey. And every time I hear the story of another death, another father, or son, or mother, or daughter, or lover, or friend that will never see home again, I have a similar reaction. I am convinced that, if I can do what I do well enough, I can prevent some of these deaths, and someone will be able to go home that might not have otherwise made it out of here alive.

But, as often happens, I ask myself questions.

"So, E., what about you?"

What about me?

Don't you want to get home alive?

That is about the stupidest thing I have been asked all day. Therefore, I know you're up to something. OK, I'll play. Yes, I would like to get home alive, and I think what I am doing will get me through this, too.

And if it doesn't? What is the acceptible trade? How many lives have to be saved to make yours a fair exchange? How many husbands and fathers will need to avoid an untimely and painful death, returning to their wives and children, in order to enable your widow and your children to stand at your graveside and say, "We will miss you, but your death allowed "XX" families to avoid this very moment, so we understand"?




Well?





There are times when I think that I think too much.

A Sound In the Night
The night is dark, as if the world, in mourning for the death of Peace, has taken on sackcloth. The pre-dawn sky is littered with stars, like pinholes of hope piercing the robe of mourning. I have stepped outside for a breath of relatively fresh air before meandering to my tent and cot for a too-brief nap between tilts at the dragons that have populated my days as of late. It is 4:30 am, and in another 3 hours I will be expected to return to battle, refreshed and renewed, while the dragons, never sleeping, breed and multiply overnight.

The night is quiet. Or, rather, the night is quiet if you don?t include the unceasing roar of the generators. It is a quiet much like that of the sea, in that the constant sound, by virtue of its own constancy, silences itself to the mind, until you are only aware of it when it is no longer there. In that way, the generators are like love, or friends, or family, or freedom itself. I am acutely aware of all of these as of late.

I hear a sound.

It is a wailing, and I instantly dismiss it as the cry of a jackal under the sliver of moon. ?He is mourning, too,? I think to myself. ?The combat and the generators have scared away the game, and he must move on, starve, or find his way into our rubbish. I mourn with you, and would that it were otherwise.? I put the thought aside, one of ten thousand images I may one day weave into one story or another poem when the dragons have fallen and the world no longer mourns.

But the sound is persistent, and is soon joined by another voice. I move closer, as if a few steps away from the generators will suddenly bring me outside of their ceaseless roar and I will have clarity. Were I not in a place of rockets and mines, I would swear the sound was a duet, perhaps two friends with wine in their bellies and song in their hearts. Gladdened by each other?s company and emboldened by the vine, they are expressing joie de vivre to counterpoint the jackal?s plaintive cry. Here, though, one would be a very great fool indeed to openly express such verve, as it would solicit the wrath of the Military Police, if not the assiduity of the sniper.

But this is not the song of the drunkard, either. There is an earnest quality to this song. The voices don?t seem to be trying to synchronize. I begin to recognize the call.


?Ash-hadu anna Muhammadar Rasulullah
Hayya alassalah
Hayya alassalah.?


?I testify that Mohammad is the Messenger of God.
Come to prayer. Come to prayer.?

I know, now, that somewhere nearby, there are people gathering to give honor to their God. I am not of their culture, and I do not practice their ways. Were I to walk up to where they are, I would not be welcome. It would be considered a grave insult if I were to be so bold. I do not know if they will be petitioning for my protection, or my destruction. I am certain that, among them, there are some that would rejoice at my death, and a few that would actively participate in it.

And yet I find comfort in the sound, alien to me as it is. There is something within me that echoes the need to cry out to the Almighty. And in spite of the differences in language, and in practice, I feel that, were all men to spend time calling out to God, and perhaps listening as well, the dragons might, indeed, grow quiet at last, and sackcloth of the world might be cast off.

I listen a bit longer, and then make my way through the gravel to my tent and cot. Somehow, even before I sleep, I am feeling renewed. Perhaps it is the hope that one day, if I am smart enough, and strong enough, this place will be at peace, and others may come and hear the call to prayer, as I have tonight. Hope is a strong tonic, indeed.

As I take a last glance at the night sky, it seems the stars are just a little brighter.

20 November, 2003
Turkey has been attacked.

More precisely, Britain has been attacked in Istanbul. And although this attack does not match the number of dead in Bali or New York, but indications are that the same parties are responsible.

There are still many that say Al Qaeda is no longer a threat, and that the Coalition should withdraw from Afghanistan. I would think that recent events might help them to connect the dots. This, my friends, is why I am doing that which I do. I don't want my friends, my children, or complete strangers to be trapped in a world where they have to worry about random acts of violence, or avoid travel and the experience of other cultures.

If you recall the events in Bali, you may also recall that Bali has no military presence in either Afghanistan or Iraq. Turkey has only limited involvement in Afghanistan, and no one in Iraq. And yet, even now, there are people gathering in London to express their desire that the coalition fold up tents and go home. I am grateful for this overwhelming show of concern for my safety, but I must respectfully decline. If Bali is not safe, and Turkey is not safe, then none of us are safe. Until we are, I will stay on the job.

As for Istanbul, I am sorry I was unable to prevent this. We mourn with you for your dead, we pray for your wounded, and we will go to our graves, if need be, to keep this from happening to you, or anyone else, again.

19 November, 2003
I am a man of little patience.

If you have read much of what I have had to say over the past year or three, thei should be fairly obvious. I hate waiting. I leap headlong into the fray before analyzing my opponent's position. I leap before I look. I count my chickens before they hatch. My answer to the challenges that present themselves to me is not the careful assesment of the options, but to cast myself headlong into the maelstrom, and improvise when I open a door and find a wall.

Patience is a virtue, though, and I, from my very youth, have desired to be a virtuous man. And so I try, in spite of the nonstandard chemistry that courses through my nervous system, to cultivate patience, to some degree of success. My work with children has helped me to develop an understanding for people learning things for the first time. If I am teaching someone something entirely new to them, I can keep hammering away at it until they understand, as long as they appear to be making an effort.

My vocation (saving the world) has done a great deal in teaching me persistence, which is a close relation to patience. It has been said of me, by numerous people (some of whom you would know by name) that no one beats a dead horse back to life quite as effectively as me. I am unwilling to let go of an issue, even if it appears hopeless, when I am convinced that it is fair, moral, and for the benefit of all. I have pummelled so many figurative brick walls into powder, using nothing but my forehead, that I could qualify for a licence for demolitions in most countries.

And yet I am unsatisfied with my progress.

I am impatient with my level of patience. It is a stereotype, I know, but I want a zenlike level of patience, and I WANT IT RIGHT NOW.

Please excuse the outburst.

Is there a shortcut? Do you know a way to get there from here without having to go around the mountain? If you do, you are, unfortunately, a very great fool indeed. It doesn't exist. Like many of these things that we want in life, patience is not a state we acheive, but a journey upon which we embark. If I may illustrate, ask yourself how long you are willing to wait for a promotion at your job. How long are you willing to wait for friend to come down the stairs and go to a show with you? How long are you willing to wait for the staff at your favourite Tandouri resteraunt to bring your Rogan Josh?

Now imagine the following. You are recently re-employed after a long period of unemployment. You have lived a spartan lifestyle for almost a year, and now are finally generating an income. Re-ask the questions above. Now change the scenario again. You are recently returned from war. And another change; The war is over, but it was in your nation.

Patience is subjective, and there are things for which I will never have patience, such as deliberate cruelty, and some things for which I expect to have very little patience. There are also things for which I am willing to wait a lifetime, or beyond my own life. I don't, for example, expect to see the world out of danger. I am satisfied to believe that I am doing what I can, and that another will finish the job after I have left.

So, why discuss patience? Where am I going with this?

Good question. I suppose I could blame it on the hours again. I am still going at the same rate I was in the infamous "101 Days" entry. I don't think that is the reason, though. Perhaps this is the begining of my opening up. Perhaps I am impatient to draw back the curtain.

Ask me again tomorrow.

Not long ago, I sent a little poem to someone I know from my wanderings on the internet.

It was a simple little thing. It may have taken 10 minutes to write, but I doubt it. I didn't even keep a personal copy. It just seemed that my friend could use a bit of encouragement. The response was interesting.

"I am just not used to people being nice to me."

I thought, "How sad, that someone would not be accoustomed to people being nice." Pretty quickly, and in the usual fashion, I responded to myself.

"E., it's not as uncommon as you immediately conclude. Take a moment to re-think your statement."

Once again, I hate when I do that.

It's true, unfortunately. We seem, as a rule, to have forgotten the art of kindness. It seems odd to me, as I have observed that kindness is generally easier than the alternatives, more rewarding, and costs almost nothing. And yet, in spite of what would appear to be simple logic to the contrary, people are at best indifferent to those around them, or at worst, deliberately cruel.

You may acuse me of being naive in the extreme. I should advise you that you would not be the first. I, too, have the capacity to press onward in the foce of logic to the contrary, my vocation being a fine example. I have had to cultivate kindness over the years, but it is no more difficult than any other habit. One must simply make the conscious decision to do something kind, every day, and make sure there is some method of reminding yourself to do so, even when you aren't in the mood.

If you are at all considering kindness as a lifestyle, you will also, eventually, want to consider a specialization. There are some, for example, who specialize in "Lofty Generosity". They donate time, effort, and finances to causes that advance the greater good. Through their activities, they have assisted in curing disease, feeding entire populations, and sustaining endangered species, all without doing any harm to anyone.

There are others who concentrate on "Infantry Kindness". They offer their resources in that mano-a-mano, down-in-the-streets manner. They keep tools and supplies in their car and watch for stranded motorists as they drive to and from work. They deliver Meals on Wheels and mow lawns for elderly neighbors. One on one kindness can be extremely satisfying, but has a greater personal cost.

Still others are into "Strategic Kindness". They invest themselves into tutoring and coaching children's sports teams. They donate toys and clothes to orphanages and homeless shelters. In this way, they are making an investment in the future, and may make the world a better place, eventually. There is a least the possibility that they will make a big difference in the life of one person, which may, in turn, produce a larger effect in time.

My personal favorite is "Stealth Generosity". There is a community of people, larger than I may suspect, I'm sure, that do kind things for people without their knowledge. They do many of the things I have mentioned in the other modus operandae, but they cover their tracks. It's rather like playing a practical joke, actually. As an example, when I travel on business, I will often pick a young couple at some resteraunt at which I am having dinner, and pay for their meal anonymously. I keep an eye open for someone who looks like they could use some kindness, or appears to be "financially underequipped". Seeing the reaction when they are told some unknown person has paid their bill, and watching them try to figure out who did it, is entertainment well worth the cost of admission.

So I encourage you to think about it. To whom can you show some kindness today. Can you find someone different tomorrow? This is one of those areas I would love to get some feedback. Tell me to whom you have been kind. Who knows? If enough people give this a try, perhaps we really can save the world.

Posted by rant/blatherskite at 5:07 PM GMT
Updated: Tuesday, 11 November 2003 6:28 PM GMT
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