Okay, where should I start??? I will say this first~~ Notice that I put her button last on the main page... That's how unimportant she is to me. I couldn't let her off the hook, though... I had to call her on her B.S.~~ The reason she tries so hard to keep my dad to herself, under her spell, is because she knows deep down I am right by saying that she is a mean, conniving lady who has never had anything on her own. Husband, money, child, friends, etc. She has had to take over and control situations just to get these things. Pretty sad thing, if you ask me. She and I have been butting heads since day one. That is because I see right through her and always have. She likes to tell my dad that it is because I can't manipulate her, when in reality it is just the opposite... She tries to keep him away from me because she hasn't been able to manipulate ME into thinking she is a soft-spoken, sweet, church lady. I know her. And most of you in my life know her too. We all see right through her. That is funny to me. She has been jealous of me since the beginning. I swear on my life as well as my brother's and mother's lives (the two people I love the most in this world) that once that she asked me if I had ever fantasized about my dad. I was on second phase in Second Chance, the center she talked my dad into admitting me into. I was only home there for a short time because the Cadssidy's knew that if they didn't take me away from there, I would end up running away. Also because I told them this... We were sitting at the table, she and I. We were talking about boys because the counselors had accused me of not being a virgin, even though I was. They had told me that I needed to go home that night and think about it and admit it. I was telling her that I had never even kissed a boy and never really had a boyfriend. I was upset because they had accused me of that. So we talked about it and she asked me that. I will admit that I said yes. At thirteen, I didn't know what kind of fantasies she meant. Now I do. What a sick bitch she is. So when I told Mrs. Cassidy, I was taken out of their home the next day.

I would like to tell you all a few things about this sad individual and then (for those of you who don't know her) you can make a decision on what you think. My mom and dad have been divorced for almost 17 years. My mom left HIM and divorced HIM because he was not the man he should have been and he did some things that he should not have done. So, when he got remarried, it did not bother her at all... After all, she divorced him. It has been 17 years now, as I said, and Barbara is so afraid that my mother and father are going to get back together. She tried to tell my dad for years that I wanted them to get back together but now I see that that was just her way of having my dad convince and swear that he and my mother never would. HA HA HA~~ What she doesn't realize is that my mom would never have my dad back. That is so funny to me. Barbara doesn't realize that my mom took out the trash and Barbara picked it up off the curb. LoL~~ Why would she want something she threw away before Barbara was even around?? She wouldn't.

So, my mom felt sorry for my dad, as she still does, and felt bad that Barbara has pissed away their life savings on Mary Kay (yes, you heard me right), so she decided to let my dad work with her. He could have made soooo much money and done something he would have loved... Barbara was all for it until she drove by one day and saw my dad's car at my mom's office and freaked. Guess she got jealous. So, my dad wasn't allowed to go to my mom's office anymore and he also wasn't allowed to work with her. Which is fine, cause it means more money for my mom but Barbara should realize each time Angela wants something and they can't afford it, that it is HER fault. By now, they would have been sitting pretty and been very happy but her jealousy and insecurities stopped it from happening.

Barbara decided that she wanted my grandmother to go into a nursing home. They were going to get the power of attorney papers drawn up and have her sign them without telling her what they were. I told her. I went to my grandmother's and had a talk with her and told her what they were going to do. She said they were not going to put her away and immediately called my mother and asked her to take power of attorney of her. Pretty sad; she doesn't trust Barbara with it but she gave it to my mother. Hmmm. So anyway, when they started looking for a nursing home (without any reason; they couldn't put her there) they called and asked my mom to come talk to a doctor at one of the assisted living homes and see what she thought. My mom told me before she ever went that she was not going to put my grandmother anywhere but would go just to amuse them. Once they all started talking, my mother told them that my grandmother does not need a nursing home and she would not put her there. Barbara had told him that my grandmother would refuse to go and he said that they could lead her out in a straight jacket. Or that they could call the police and have to police remove my grandmother from her house... Now, my grandmother is a little defenseless woman who does not need to be put in a straight jacket... And my mom refused to talk about it anymore. Barbara went nuts... She got mad because she realized that this was one situation that she had no control over and it made her flip out... LoL!!! Here is what was said... Cheri: "Barbara said I WOULD get the police to take Mamaw out of the house if it became necessary and I told her I WOULD NOT do it and she said,'THEN WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO ABOUT IT', and I said 'I DUNNO, YOU SEEM TO HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS BUT I TELL YOU WHAT I'M NOT GONNA DO AND THAT'S DO THAT'.....Then she said,'THAT'S RIGHT, YOU'VE HAD YOUR NOSE IN MY BUSINESS AND HAVE BEEN MESSING IN MY MARRIAGE FOR 14 YEARS', and at that point, I got up, got my purse and told the man it was nice to have met him and I walked out..." Now, my mother has no part in this page... I am just repeating what was said. What Barbara doesn't understand is that until the day she is gone from this family, we will ALL continue to have our noses in her life. Geez, we ARE his kids, ya know. She should have never married him if she didn't want his baggage as well. She can't get rid of us. She can block phone calls... She can even erase messages on the machine, like she already does... But she can't get rid of us. We still exist. I know she hates that... I exist and so does my mother. She doesn't mind Chris because he lets her think he likes her. But she minds us. Well, Big Mama, get over it. Things in this family are about to get fun for me. LoL

So last week my mother receives a call from Brenda, my dad's cousin-in-law. Seems that Ronnie has had a cerebral hemorrhage and is in ICU. These people are my dad's aunt's son and daughter-in-law. I know, confusing... But anyway, my mom (who is not even a part of that family anymore) decided to drive up to Aunt Cille's house and tell her because she didn't know yet and this is something you can't say on the phone. So my mom calls and tells my dad and asks if he would like to go with her. My dad says yes and so my mom goes to get him. By the time she got there, Barbara had decided that my dad couldn't go. Like she is his MOTHER!!! Now, I know that my dad is to blame here, too, because if I had been him, I would have told her where she could go and left. But he didn't and so my mom and Chris went to tell her. Sad part is that Barbara has now stepped over the line with her jealousy. What did she think was going to happen??? That is my dad's family. I hope the next time her "father" almost drops dead, someone tells her that she will have to get over it. This is his family. We are his flesh and blood, something she is not. We are a part of him. She will have to get over it. We will be here when she is gone. She has tried to get rid of me for the last 16 years and as you can see, I am not going anywhere. I was here first. And I will always be here.

She has made this man go out and work to support her fat ass for the last 6 years. He gets a retirement check every month, which is more than I make and she can't work?? She calls selling Mary Kay work??? LoL!!!~~ She may have gotten a car recently, but we all know that she BOUGHT it. She spent soooo much money on Mary Kay that she actually PAID for the car... HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! I SWEAR she rode the short bus to school. That's why I never got involved like she wanted me to. I saw it for what it really was... Just like I did her. One day she will be raising a child ALONE and can't even afford to feed her *BUT* at least they will have decent body wash... *LOL*

He doesn't need to get a job and I think it is damn funny that he hasn't yet. She needs to get a real job and stop spending all his money on her cheap make-up and help put food on the table. That is her job, not his... He worked his butt off for 25 years and he gets a check for it every month. So she needs to STOP the BS because everyone sees right through her now and no one is believing her song and dance. In the end, everyone sees that I was right. She is just like I have always said and it has taken this long to prove it. Funny thing is, I didn't even have to prove it... SHE did that herself. *LOL* She is a coward... Let her live with that... *LOLOL*