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Kevin and I met through our Church in the summer of 1980. I had recently just moved into town and placed my membership in the same congregation he was attending. I was 16, and he was 19. I was still in high school and he had finished his first year of college and was working. I had not noticed him really. I was more attracted to another young guy my own age. Later I learned this was his buddy! His buddy gave me a message at school one day that Kevin said to tell me hello. I thought that was sort of odd, being I had not really even talked to Kevin yet. Meanwhile he showed up at a party for our homecoming floats. He talked a while to me but I still seemed interested in his buddy more than him. A few weeks later, after several of us were riding around, he and I wound up being the only ones that didn't have to go home. So I invited him out to my house to visit. We stayed up a long time talking and then he asked me out on a date for the next night

I was very nervous, being he was 19 and I thought my Mom would not let me go out with him. But she did and he was so nice. We went out to eat and to a movie. When he walked me to the door, he simply hugged me. I knew then I would spend the rest of my life with him. I called him my teddy bear. We dated for 2 more years.

The summer of 1982 after I had graduated from High School, I attended a family reunion with Kevin and his family. We were talking about different things while we are at the lake. It was then he simply asked why we couldn't set a date for marriage. He asked what was holding me back. There wasn't anything other than my age. I was only 17, fixing to turn 18 in July. I had several scholarships to school, but I already knew I had what I thought to be great job for a 18 year old. So I accepted, we told all the family and on August 20, 1982 we had a wedding!

My best friend coordinated everything. All my friends helped with the wedding. It was simple and in expensive, but beautiful! Here we are 24 years later! And we plan to spend the rest of our lives together. I won't say it has all been a bed of roses. We have had some hard times, but with prayer, friends, God, and family, we made it. Marriage is not something you can commit to, then sit back and relax. It takes work and we should never take the other for granted.