Understanding Women
Women value feelings and use atmospheres in thinking. That may seem ununderstandable to men at first sight but should be easy to understand the following way: feelings connect to factors which are important to health and well functioning. If we lose something, that is harmful to our health and consequently we feel negatively about the happening. If we enjoy something, it is a mark that we function well in such life. Taking emotions into account means taking our own principles of functioning into account, that’s why it makes us feel good. And we feel strongly about the functionally important things in life: about what kind of social relationships we have, is there a connection to humans’ natural living environment i.e. to the nature. Even music is connected to natural means of communication about functionally important matters: about feelings, state of mind, ways of doing etc. And even natural beauty can be seen as a mark of harmony which is a mark of well functioning in some respect or another. Atmospheres are landscapes with feelings connected to them: one can see as a holistic view what things mean to life. This applies also to technical and militaristic things which though often seem quite dark in atmospheres i.e. full of harmful destruction and with only some glimpses of light: of peace time prosperity and happiness. This piece of understanding might make you more intelligent: teach you how your different sides fit together and how to use a natural holistic, somewhat philosophical view of the world: an atmosphere as a part of your objective thinking.
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