Thinking about love
HOW TO THINK ABOUT LOVE
We love the things which we need.
Usually I have strong grounds for my feelings, I feel, so maybe I am not the best example for this, but when I feel love, I feel it on certain grounds: I love these things – they may be emotionally grounded but I know what I love and typically why and what I do not love or like and why. So the thoughts may go the following way: I like him because he is so friendly, I love his sporty attitude to life and her emotionality. Those are things that I need in life, that make me feel better at the very moment that I get them to my social environment and so get the chance to them myself too, either slightly or a lot which affects how I feel about the thing. They are essential to my functioning. I do not always know why but I can notice the effect by comparing the times when I have had such things in my life to those times like them when I have not had such things. Like the sense of beauty at some point on a walk and the lack of it the very previous and following moments. (Afterwards I would still somewhat feel the curing effect of the beauty of the nature.)
Likings refer to needs like love does but with a smaller urgency. My theory does not apply to likings about food, I am not able to explain their usefulness - maybe it has disappeared as the foods have become too cultivated and selected for many generations. But maybe some food expert might able to find connections of likings to usefulness also in questions of food.
Our sense of health should overrule the wish to overeat!
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