My Two Rabbits
PROBLEM SOLVING WITH THE ISLAND PRINCIPLE
I own two rabbits, one of which is timid and aggressive and the other one is bold and friendly but flees rabbit like when the other one threatens it. So they end up the aggressive one chasing the bold one. Or so it used to be. But my both rabbbits understand my gesture language, so I ordered them using my attentiobn and gestures to each stay on an island of some 10 cm around them which was what they considered their personal space and a little bit around it. So they stopped chasing each other. Especially when I gave the bold and friendly one a big extra island including the other rabbit so that it could determine the relationship to be a friendly one. This works most of the time but sometimes I have to remind them of the islands and redetermine the borders – that cools them down and peace and harmony prevail once again.
Generalising this to humans, one could say that evil ones deserve only very small islands: their lives are largely based in the culture and in the course of action of others than themselves. Good ones deserve very big islands. Sometimes my islands covers the whole seen landscape: all the others being on my island, on my social space. That is OK because I support good moral and happy ways of living in ways that are according to the local culture and typically the wishes of each. So women typically have larger islands than men: the ways of women are friendlier and positive for happy life.>br>
To be more clear, I mention that heartfelt friendliness allows one to enter the personal space of another. It is a rule that one can enter to affect things toward good but not otherwise.
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