Victoria looses her "innocence" at the Jellicle Ball, performing the "mating dance" with Plato, Tumblebrutus, or Admetus. In the US, it is Tumblebrutus, although in the video and in London, it is Plato. I've also seen Admetus.
Victoria is a "teen", and it isn't until after the "mating dance" that Victoria becomes an adult. Mistoffelees is one of her close friends, (if not boyfriend) since he is also of the same age. She also hangs around the other kittens, Electra, Etcetera, and Jemima. Even though she does the "Mating Dance" with Plato/Tumblebrutus/Admetus, I believe that Mistoffelees and she have a "thing" going on between them. Another "myth" is that she's in a relationship with Alonzo. this may be true, but nobody's certian but her!
Victoria signals the invitation to the Jellicle Ball, performing the beautiful dance in the begining. She is drawn to Grizabella, and is the first to touch her, although she never hated her.
