Questiona and Answers Regarding Emotions
These are a little less intense and extreme as the others and more people will likely find something that they can associate with here. Many of these answers are not complete yet, and I will add to them as I go...
Question:
Where stands the line between love and hate?
Answer:
There are many for this, so I will list the ones I have found so far.
A) In the heart of any person questioned, so that is to say it is an individual line different to each entity.
B) Both take respect: Love without respect is merely love, hate, contempt.
C) Intent:
One who claims to love but intentionally causes harm is misrepresenting love for hate, regardless of reasoning.
One who claims to hate while feeling incapable of existance without the subject is lying to one's own self.
Question:
How does one explain to another that he loves the other without sounding mearely self-motivated or desperate?
Answer:
By telling the other all of the good traits one sees in the other, not the parts of ones's self seen reflected. No other person is on'e sown mirror.
Question:
Where lies the line between love and obsession?
Answer:
In love you put the other person ahead of yourself in all things, even if that means letting the other go. In obsession you cease to care about what the other wants and/or needs.
Question:
How does one convince another of their worth when the other is not willing to listen?
Answer:
By subtly treating the subject as the type of person one believes them to be. In a case where a persons ears are closed words are meaningless. Actions are the only agent of change.
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