you a REASON, a SEASON, or a LIFETIME?<----
someone is in your life for a REASON... It is usually to meet
a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a
difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically,
emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they
are! They are there for a REASON you need them to be. Then,
without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this
person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must
realise is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their
work is done. The prayer you sent has been answered. And now is it
time to move on.
Then people come into your life for a SEASON... because your
turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience
of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have
never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe
it! It is real! But, only for a SEASON.
LIFETIME relationship teach you lifetime lessons: things you
must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your
job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have
learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life.
from The Borneo Post, Nature & Health, 16 Dec 2001-
"This is the best article I ever read.
I like the way how it relate people with reason, season and lifetime.
Well, it's really something to be pondered upon."