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Is It Love, Or, Is It Infatuation?


*WHAT IS THE MAJOR ATTRACTION?
Infatuation would arise from attraction by looks.
It's underlying qualities that count in love.

*HOW MANY FACTORS ATTRACT?
Factors in infatuation are relatively few...pretty hair, nice smile and sense of humor.
In love, most qualities attract.

*HOW DID IT START?
Infatuation tends to start fast.
Love, slowly.

*HOW AND WHEN DOES IT END??
Infatuation stops very quickly.
Love takes longer to get over.

*HOW DOES IT AFFECT YOUR PERSONALITY?
Infatuation has a disorganizing and destructive effect on your personality.
Love does the opposite, It feels as if everything is completed.

*HOW CONSISTENT IS YOUR LEVEL OF INTEREST?
Infatuation is not consistant.
Love never dies.

*HOW DO YOU SEE EACH OTHER?
If infatuated, you live in a one person world, your whole universe revolves around that person.
In love, you add that relationship to others you have.

*HOW DO OTHERS VIEW YOU (and your relationship)?
If infatuated, parents and friends do not approve because you become withdrawn from them. They wish you would hurry up and come to your senses.
In love, they tend to approve because it is good for you and that other person brings out the best in you.

*WHAT DOES DISTANCE DO?
Infatuation will die with distance.
In love, It will bring you closer together in the long run because you will see how hard it is to be away from one you truly love.

*HOW DO QUARRELS AFFECT THE ROMANCE?
In infatuation, quarrels will kill the relationship and they tend to become more frequent and severe.
In love, quarrels are healthy and let your relationship grow by compromise and working out differences you come accross.

*HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT OR REFER TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
Infatuation is: I, me, my, his. A selfish relationship not thinking in terms of two people as one.
Love is: we and our...always.

*ARE YOU SELFISH OR SELFLESS IN THE RELATIONSHIP?
Infatuated, your ego response to the other person is mainly selfish and restrictive. Your prime interest is what it does for you.
In love, Your prime interest is thinking about what you can do for the other person to make them feel happy. Then, you in turn feel happy seeing them smile.

*WHAT IS YOUR OVERALL ATTITUDE?
In infatuation, you want to take from the relationship
In love, you want to share.

*ARE YOU JEALOUS?
Jealousy is frequent and severe if it's infatuation.
Love is when you trust and honesty is a main factor and you know in your heart the other would never cheat.

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