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IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma Bombeck
(Written after she found out she was dying from cancer.)

I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending 
the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for 
the day.

I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before 
it melted in storage.

I would have talked less and listened more.

I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet 
was stained, or the sofa faded.

I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and 
worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a 
fire in the fireplace.

I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble 
about his youth.

I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a 
summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.

I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried 
about grass stains.

I would have cried and laughed less while watching television-and 
more while watching life.

I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, 
wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.

Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished 
every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was
the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.

When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, 
"Later. Now go get washed up for dinner." 
There would have been more "I love you's." More "I'm sorry's"

...But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every 
minute...look at it and really see it ... live it...and never 
give it back.

Stop sweating the small stuff. Don't worry about who doesn't like you, 
who has more, or who's doing what.

Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who 
DO love us.

Let's think about what God HAS blessed us with. 
And what we are doing each day to promote ourselves mentally, physically, 
emotionally, as well as spiritually. 
Life is too short to let it pass you by. We only have one shot 
at this and then it's gone. I hope you all have a blessed day.

 
In memory of Erma Bombeck who lost her fight with cancer. Here is an angel 
sent to watch over you... Pass this on to the people you want watched 
over.... I did ...........