Who comes into your mind 1st ?

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Do you have any idea of who meant the most to you?

There is this guy who loves two gals at the same time but he don't know 
which one he loves more.  Someone taught him : "If you are happy, who you 
think of first? If you think of her, she is the one you love more."

NO, THIS IS NOT THE WAY TO TEST THE FORMULA OF LOVE.

Ask yourself this question honestly : "When you are sad, which gal/guy you 
want to share your burden with?"  If you think of that gal/guy first, she/he 
is the one that you love more.

However if you think of the same gal/guy when you are happy & sad, that's 
the most perfect.  But if you didn't think of the same gal/guy, I would 
advise you to chose the one you are willing to share your sadness with.

In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many people 
whom you can share your happiness with, not necessary your lover. If you 
live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone. Sadness, however not 
many people is willing to share burden with you. If you willing to tell 
her/him your unhappiness, she/he got to be someone who is closest & most 
understanding to you.

In other words, if she/he only think of you when she/he is happy, but look 
for someone else when she/he is sad.  This kind of lover is too unstable, 
she/he didn't treat you as someone she/he can spend the rest of her life 
with.

Of course, I will be very happy if I am the first person to share her/his 
happiness.  But, if she/he is sad, I will be too willing to stay by her/his 
side & ease her/his pain.  Only then, I will believe I hold a very important 
position in her/his heart.

If you are sad, who comes to your mind first?


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Friendship is a strange thing. We find ourselves telling each other the 
deepest details of our lives ... things we don't even share with the 
families who raised us.

But what is a friend? A confidant? A shoulder to cry on? An ear to listen? A 
heart to feel? A friend is all these ... and more. No matter where we met, 
no matter how long we've been together ... I call you friend. A word so 
small, yet so large in feeling, a word filled with emotion, a word 
overflowing with love. Truly great things come in small packages. Once the 
package of friendship has been opened, it can never be closed.

It is a constant book always waiting ... waiting to be read and enjoyed. We 
may have our disagreements ... we may have our disappointments ... we may 
argue ... we may concern one another friendship is a unique bond that lasts 
through all tribulations. A part of each of us goes into our friendships ... 
our humor ...our experiences ... our tears. Friendships are foundations 
...necessary for life ... and love.

So treasure what you have now ......