The Ex
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"I love my kids"? yeah, what ever man... |
The "It takes two" mentality;
It takes one to stalk,
One to harass,
And one to kill...period
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Thank God that old (and STUPID) mentality is dying out
Ummmm, let me guess:1. The child support court order was made.2. Wage execution was implemented by the court. "Suddenly" they became 'laid off' or 'fired'. Some even have the nerve to quit their jobs. 3. Then they become self employed. or They work under the table for a friend who owns a business. 4. Then they cry poor mouth ("I cant afford the payments"), despite the fact they go on vacations, purchase large items (vehicles, homes, dirt bikes, etc). 5. Then they hire attorneys to fight it, for they are "too poor" to afford the child support ordered. 6. Then they hide their assets. They think they are so unique and yes, even slick. Yeah...very unique indeed. Well, that is why we are no longer with these little gems of a catch. If they get remarried, you just throw the rice...(I would) This little game is more common then you think. I have spoken with hundreds of single parents, and it has happened to them as well, so don't feel bad. You are not alone. It is the genuinely caring ex who does not play this game...for they just want the best for their kids and know what it entails to raise a family. They would never want to hurt their kids or see them do without. Save your breath for those whom play the game. They just don't get it and never will. They dont have a clue what is involved in raising a family or even running a home: to them, its all about nothing but money. Anyone whom has ever personally raised a family, knows that getting a water logged thumb isnt even an option. If your ex owes arrears, look at my other links to see if you want to report it on their credit reports, dmv, IRS, post their pic on the deadbeat website, etc. You may also decide to write the states officials where they reside. |
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