I would have to think long and hard before I did that again. It would have to be the right one this time.

NEVER again will I ignore my gut instinct.

I have nothing against marriage. I think it actually works when two people are compatible.

That’s half of the battle, as far as I am concerned. That “opposites attract”, is a bunch of crap. Well, it was for me, I should say. It didn’t work in my situation, that’s all.

The problem is, most guys don’t get it, and end up treating the people they supposedly love, terrible or cruel. Then they wonder why she files for divorce or leaves them for another.

Lesson here: there is ALWAYS someone out there (and many more) who will love and treat your mate right....don't you even think there isn't.

Before you decide to send me any hate mail, I realize there are some women out there that are jerks also. Maybe we should try and pair all of the idiots together at a website...we should call it:

www.we_treat_our_loved_ones_like_crap.com
or, how about
www.I'll_stalkyou_ifyou_dontwantme_anymore.com

To those getting married, I wish you nothing but the best in your new life. I don't mean to upset you in anyway. I really do wish you the best in your marriage; just make sure you NEVER ignore your gut instinct.

I used to think that being a good provider was what made a man a good man. Not so, I found out the hard way. There is more than one type of income; money, love, support,Spiritual, etc. After some soul searching and time, I am figuring out what is important to me. It used to be, what was important to me, didnt matter.

Now, I have discovered what is.

What is important in a mate to me:
1. His mind...first on my list would be his mind. I LOVE a man who has a thinking mind. To me, smart is sexy.
2. Humor; everyone has a different type of humor. That 'dry' humor I just dont get. Simple things amuse me. I think I will know it when I see him, if his humor is like mine. If he has a sense of humor, that means he is playful.
3. Patient; this one is a MUST. I dont like being the only one in a marriage with the patience. I don't want the stress of someone whom insists upon sweating the small stuff.
4. NOT anal. I am not perfect, and I dont expect him to be either. Nothing in the world is perfect, including me :)
5.ENJOY KIDS; he has to get a kick out of kids just as much as I do...even the stupid stuff they do.

Yeah, I know...I am asking for too much. Guess I mind as well just go lesbo...LMAO!

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