Female Domination of the consenting male in certain instances is the natural evolution of sexual relationships in society as it undergoes massive changes. Changes in the way men and women view each other and their roles in society as a whole and in the confines of their relationship. Today, Female Superiority is more than a phrase, it is today becoming more prevelant as a lifestyle as more males are willing to wear a good pair of matching handcuffs to accessorize with their collar and leash ensemble in an effort to become submissive to a dominant Female.No, it's not everyone's cup of tea.
The lifestyle can be entered into by a Female with her spouse, boyfriend or any male she meets that can be introduced to Femdom. It is a way of life that can, if properly implemented please both parties...the Female who wishes to dominate, and the male who is willing to submit. It is a world of sexuality and sensuality that can be one of the most rewarding relationships two can enter into..however, only one can be in charge..the Female of the species.
To understand the gender roll shift, we have to look at the historic background of the Female/male relationship in society. In the ancient past Females lived in male dominated societies. They were sold as slaves to males for harems and brothels and as house servants. The Female later, when the concept of marriage emerged took the males last name as her own, which in effect was a way for the male to show "ownership" of the Female. Today the Female has blossomed into the rock star of entertainment, business and politics. Many Females are breadwinners in the home and their is a growing acceptance of the "househusband" who stays at home and look after domestic affairs. In most cases that is out of convienence to the household bottom line, but in others it is the males bottom that the line in the sand is drawn on by his Female. The Man-pet.is merely the ovidient property of it's dominant Female who performs domestic duties such as cleaning, cooking, laundry, errands, car washing and above all sexual servicing of it's Mistress. The male is now part pet, part slave and part male-harem resident and is in effect the male wife of the household.
This relationship is an intoxicant for both parties who prefer it.Now we add another factor to enhance the sexuality. The interracial Mistress-sman-pet combination. Again, history tells the story. The African Americans were brought over as slaves originally to work for white masters. They literally were put on the block and auctioned to the highest bidder. Today the African American Female has asserted herself into society as a force that can be dominant as never before. In this type of relationship the added element of the white male man-pet being "owned" by someone of another race fuel injects the sexuality of both parties.
The man-pet can be trained to sexually please it's Mistress as she desires, while she retains full control over it and she also has full control over her own life without question. She can date others such as free-males where as the man-pet cannot have other relationships outside of the Females home or dominion.
The man-pet is regarded as sub-human as a slave and can be taught to behave as a humanimal and adopt the characteristics of a canine to beg, fetch, roll over and bark. Some are trained as equines and turned into pony-boys to pull carts act completely as your friend Flicka! If you don't have access to stables and land the man-pet pony can still be trained. Some ponyboys are used as "racehorses" such as in California on clothing optional beaches where man-pets are brought by their owners to engage in races and the Mistresses and their guests male and Female can actually bet on them. They used to race saloon Girls in the old west so turnabout is fair play.
The man-pet can provide income in the form of money or perceived value. For example arrangements can be made with sperm banks for it's sperm on a regular basis. In effect the man-pet can now be milked for profit. It can be rented out as a domestic for service, and if the Mistress owns a company it can be put to work there as an unpaid worker or can also be rented to another company for wages paid directly tot the Mistress as a sub contractor. Other venues for "rental" include male peep show fantasy booths where the Mistress keeps the tips it earns and any pay. As your domestic slave it frees you up for your business or your pleasure while it handles the mundane day to day routine. This way a value can actually be place on your slave and if you decided down the road to sell or auction it you can get fair market value on the sale.
Most importantly the slave man-pet must be trained from day one. Forced to wear a collar and leash with pet tags defines your ownership of it. It can also be branded by tattoo as you would livestock. Also the man-pet slave must be kept nude at all times in the home to help emasculate it to a certain degree. Along with collar and leash, there are also cock leashes to pull it around in front of guests while it is made to perform solo or with another slave. Two nude man-pet slaves can be made to perform sexually for an appreciative audience in sex acts or with "cock races" where both are forced to kneel and masturbate while bets are placed and whichever one comes first wins the race..but not the money!
Training should also start by keeping your new male man pet slave in a small puppy cage in another room locked in. By keeping it locked up, it becomes dependent on you for food, water and bodily functions. The best way is to keep it in there for 30 days training it in behavior and how to address you as Mistress or whichever title you prefer. Of course it can be allowed out for an hour a day to clean itself. As for going to the bathroom, diapers will fix that problem. Also once a day it's recommended to take it out of the cage and punish it so it knows what is in story for disobidience. Many ways of punishment, whips, paddles, hairbrushes etc but one that has a lasting deep psychological effect is to have it lie across your knee for a spanking. This is Mother and Child and it will learn to behave under your guidance. After a month or so let it out to perform chores around the home. This way it will work hard to avoid being in the cage. Work will be it's reward.
If you do have a free male boyfriend it's important that he understands and accepts your slave. The slave will be taught to refer to the free male as Master or Sir whicheve you deem appropriate. The man pet slave can be made to do the free males laundry, wash his car and clean his apartment or home as well to further deepen the relationship between the Mistress and her free male or males. The man pet slave will also service the free male sexually regard him as his natural male superior to include performing as a canine for his pleasure and to engage in foot worship and sexual servicing. The slave is a cuckold no matter how you look at it.
Sexual activity between the Mistress and the man pet slave is up to the discretion of the Mistress. Foot worship, face sitting and the ability to produce Female orgasm on a regular basis is imperitive without regard to it's own need for gratification. It is told what to wear in public if out with the Mistress and will obey in public as in private, as well as behave as expected. One word commands and hand motions can be used in public so it's subtle and in the home words such as "sit" "stay" "beg" are sure crowd pleasers.
The man pet must also not have access to phones, mass media, computers, or clothing so it is primarily focused on you and you alone. Tere are so many facets to this lifestyle that we will go over in this series. If you have questions on how to proceed, train, etc feel free to contact me theroadhead@gmail.com and I will take up those issues in another column such as care and feeding, pony training, obidience training, sexual worship and group play.
Remember, a dog may be mans best friend, but a man pet is a Females best friend!
FemDom - Kennel Training - Part Two
Once you and your new man-pet agree to pursue this lifestyle it's important for you as Mistress to set his paramenters and lay out the ground rules which can vary Mistress to Mistress but some basics should be implemented to enhance the sexuality of the relationship and the literal subjugation of your male property. This is all spelled out in contract form which both parties sign, as a sort of bill of sale as he turns himself over to your authority.
The male slave is merely property and must be treated as a new puppy that requires training. This is not only the first step but the most crucial as it will set the ground rules for his behaviour and obidience to you. The first step is to enslave him economically to you. If he has any property such as a car, etc it is to be signed over to you as the owner of it. Any bank accounts and credit cards must also be turned over to you and his accounts closed so he no longer has any access to funds and is completely dependent on you for his care and feeding. This is economic bondage and is one more tool in your domination arsenal.
The next step is take him out to purchase a cage where you will keep him kenneled when not in use. A medium sized puppy cage is best so that he can only remain on hands and knees in a submissive stance and it can also be used as a laundry hamper.. The cage should have a lock on it to keep him from getting out. Bindings can include two pair of handcuffs, one for his feet and one set for his hands. These should remain on at all times except for bathing. You can find these items at any adult store and they also carry maid costumes and such if feminization of your male is what you want. You can hold up the uniform to him in front of others to humiliate him in public. (In one case the owner of an adult store was given permission to take the slave in the back room for a photo session and the Mistress recieved a discount on her purchases!)
It's also advisable to purchase a collar and leash and a choke chain to wear. The collar can accomodate a pet tag and lock to prevent removal. You can also purchase a latch to accomodate a lock to attach to the door of the spare room you keep him kenneled in to increase his sense of helplessness. Remember he is to be treated as a pet animal and kenneling is the perfect accessory.
Next is to name you man-pet. When African Americans were bought and sold at auction, their Owners gave them slave names and the same is done with your new male property and is the name he must go by. He is to be kept nude at all times in the home collared and leashed with pet tag. The tag merely states his new name and yours as Owner of him. In an interracial relationship you can also add Black Owned or even have him branded by a tattoo with those words. Its usually placed in many cases on the lower back just above the buttocks which he will wear with pride.
There are many white owners and white slaves, and Black Owners and white slaves, but rarely are there Black slaves. Even in a cuckold situation, the white male is subject to the whims of his white Mistress and her boyfriend which is generally a Black Bull as they are referred to who is the white male slaves defacto Master.No matter the race of the boyfriend the white slave must also obey him and do as he says, as well as doing his laundry, cleaning his apartment or home, washing car, yard work etc. It's important to keep the slave working and active, that is his function and in time with proper training..his priority. Reward and punishment is it's own reward for you and helps maintain control with minimal effort on your part.
When you are not at home the slave can be kept in the cage in the locked room. The cage is an important aspect of not only training but ongoing discipline. It is advisable to keep him kenneled initially for a full month and allowing him out only once a day for bathing and also for a spanking across your knee to show your control and to subjugate him on a daily basis until your rule is second nature. The spanking should be forceful to show your power over him and kept up until he starts to cry or to beg you to stop as part of the emasculation process.Feeding is done in the cage as he eats from your fingers and hand to deepen his dependence on you for simple food and water. In time you can let him out for longer periods after 30 days of kenneling and spankings. He will be happy to perform chores for you just to keep from being placed back in the cage and spanked. Reward and punishment are your new tools of the trade. In time he will be a happy worker and "male wife" man-pet..obidient to a fault to make your life easier. If you have a boyfriend too it is also important to have him discipline the slave to further humilitate him and our old friend emasculation.
If certain chores are not done properly you make him do them over until you are satisfied...and make him thank you for teaching him to be a good boy man-pet. Once he is past the training period you can now show him off to others and make him perform for yours and their entertainment. If the relationship is interracial and the guests are also African American you can make him perform as African American slaves had to for their owners by making your man-pet dance, be inspected, crawl and kiss the feet of your guests to show his respect for his owners and to honor their Superiority over him. Many Black Mistresses own white males and many Black Masters own white females and some Black Owners own both. The male slave can be used for sperm milking and also the female slave can have lactation induced to become what they call a "milker" where her milk is used in the home or can be sold wholesale or retail. You slaves are livestock afterall so they should provide an income for you...besides it's more fun milking a human slave than a cow in a barn! We will address other ways of turning your slave into "income property" in this series such as breeding for childless couples who want to rent him, outside employment, etc. For example if you own a company or have a friend who does and needs an employee you can contract him out for an agreed upon fee to be paid to you for his services. The pay can be under the table and lower than a regular employee would cost, thereby making it easier to "rent" him out for services.He can also be rented out to clubs with male dancers to perform or to perform in fantasy booths, pose for photos and videos and even have streaming online "shows" with him as the star attraction.
Anothe important aspect is how he is to address you in public as well as in private. Many Females prefer the title Mistress which the man-pet must refer to you as at all times. All free males and all Females are to be addressed as Sir and Ma'am. with head lowered never looking them in the eye. He is also never allowed outside the home unaccompanied by you except when his submission is total and can be trusted to run errands for you. He is also to be denied access to cellphones, computer, radio, tv, etc which can be locked in your bedroom along with his clothing to deny him access to the outside world and stimuli in order to re-inforce his dependence on you and to maintain his focus on pleasing and obeying you.
Because his free will has been removed you must make sure he has a list of domestic chores around your home to do daily..cleaning, ironing, cooking, yard work, etc. In some cases Mistresses have worked out chore sheets that the male slave must fill out daily of when chore began ad ended for a time frame. By careful analysis you can determine how to speed up his work and make him more productive to get more work done on your behalf. You can also take the steps to have your slave "registered" online at a slave group or site as you would register a dog or a pony. You can post pics of your slave to show it off.
The cost of owning a man pet is somewhat minimal. One pair of shorts and one t-shirt, one pair of long pants and a long sleeve shirt and a pair of shoes and one pair of sandals. As for accessories, two pair of handcuffs, collar and leash, choke chain and any maid uniforms, etc. He has no need for any other clothing as his natural state will one of complete nudity except when outside the home. You may also want to purchase two dog bowls for him to feed from on the floor as he should not be allowed to sit at the table or be on furniture. You can hand feed him from the table while eating by making him sit up and beg and then scrape your left overs into his bowl for his meal.
A man-pet can make daily life easier for you and provide fun and income at the same time. We will discuss the man-pets responsibilities in the arena of sexual pleasuring of the Female along with pet training such as canine, feline and equine and how to entertain your guests with games involving your slave man pet either alone or with other slaves performing for your guests enjoyment. So grab that collar and leash and give it a good tug...he'll love you for it!
FEM DOM PART THREE - Slave Economics -Buying, Selling, Trading and Slave Swapping
The Mistress owned slave serves many purposes including providing income and pleasure. I touched briefly on the aspect of slaves as income and will delve further into here. This will include deriving income, perceived income and attaching a price to your man-pet slave for future sale, auction or trade. In the meantime if you are tied into a regional network of other Femdom Owners with man-pets this is a great avenue for slave swapping, similar to the practice of wife swapping if you own a slave but want to taste the fruit of mulitiple submissive males. (Some Mistresses own more than one slave man-pet to keep her entertained and pampered. Once you have established a foundation of friendship with another Mistress or Mistresses, you can work out the details of scheduling for the swapping of your properties for a day or longer depending on what you as Owners agree upon.The swapped slave can be used for sexual servicing (remember he is trained to fully please a Female!) and for domestic chores and duties in between his sexual activities to please you.
The fully trained man-pet is well versed in vaginal and anal pleasuring and because he is trained to use tongue and cock to this end you can get extended sexual activity for hours. For instance his cock is a living tissue dildo that is self powered and can used in the vagina and once you have achieved orgasm and allow him to, he can then switch and insert his tongue in place while the cock re-loads. He can be kept in position for as long as you desire and serves a sanitary purpose as well. As his tongue is working your insides he is also cleaning by swallowing the residue of his own cum and your juices at the same time. Once his sack is full and ready you can switch to cock mode again and repeat the process until you are completely satisfied.
This same procedure can used for anal pleasuring of the Female as many prefer this. In addition to back entry doggie style of cock and tongue, the slave can also be forced to lay down on his back for a session of face sitting. In this position you straddle his face and lower your bottom to his mouth. You can now control the depth of penetration as his tongue probes ever deeper increasing the anal stimulation that you crave. You can also keep him in this position for vaginal feeding and a prelude to position 69 whereby you can lean forward and enjoy the taste and feel of a submissive male cock in you mouth.
Along with slave swapping there is also one aspect the man-pet has to be prepared for in it's training. If you do take a free male as a boyfriend it's imperitive to the slave that he also enjoys having the man-pet around as he does exert influence and can sway the Mistress perhaps into selling him or exchanging him for another. The slave gets used to it's Mistress and dependent on her as well and a routine is established that becomes natural and second nature. So to prevent any change in ownership the slave learns that he must appeal and please it's defacto Master as well.
Generally in an inter-racial relationship, the male slave is white and the free male is generally African American so the slave has two submissions to cater to which involve basic dom sub to a Mistress and her free male, and a submission to Black Superiority as that will enhance the erotic fever in both parties of both races. The Black Master or Black Bull has to be treated with reverence as he exerts the same authority over the man-pet slave so sexual servicing of the Master will also in most cases become routine as slavery now moves into the arena of bi-sexuality. In place of a vagina, the slave must now please the penis of the new Master, Black or white, The Black Master is generally larger in that area than the white slave is used to. Penis pleasuring is not alone as the man-pet slave will also engage in face sitting and anal pleasuring of it's Master as well. The Mistress and Master can take advantage of massage and pleasuring on command. As long as the Master is content, the slave may feel secure in his remaining their property. In time he will become adept at cocksucking and submission of the dominant male. This also prepares him for economic use as a sex toy for other Females and males which now increases his gender marketabilit and income capabilities as a sex rental, and also increases his market value in the event of his eventual sale. He can be prized now for African American Mistresses and Masters as well as white ones so you chances of getting market prices are almost assured. The Black Owners market is wide open for the sale and auction of white slaves and is one to not overlook when buying or selling.
Breeding of your male slave has many doors to be opened. In the last segment of this series I discussed the fact that a childless couple can avail themselves of your slave for stud service of course under supervision of the couple and yourself. In some cases childless couples may want to adopt a child of their own but for economic reasons or others can't go through regular channels. In this case your slave can be put to stud for economic gain with a Female breeder slave or willing Free Female. This is tricker as both the breeder slave and the female have to sign an agreement that the child is theres of course, but are giving it up for private adoption so there are no repercussions later. This should be only undertaken with an attorney to draft the proper paper work. It is not formulated as slave breeding but merely a couple having a child by agreement for adoption by an outside party.
If the Female involved is also a slave then you as Owner of the male breeder and the other Mistress or Master who owns the Female breeder split the fees. In the case of a Free Female then the fee is split between you and her, and again, this should all be spelled out in contract legal form.This way your breeding of you slave and using him as a stud is legal and quietly shows ownership. It can also be one more thing towards improving his cost in sale or auction or increasing the fee for his stud service in the future as he now has a track record. It's win win for you.
Sex shows and peep shows are great venues for renting your slave out to commercial establishments or private parties for masturbation races, cock fights, (yes, those kind of cock fights!) and even cock sucking competitions. The hold those for Female slaves and man-pet slaves are gradually being introduced to these events as competitors as well. Usually it's the white slave male or Female that is the competitor and mainly Black Cocks are used while he audience watches and cheers their favorite on. These can be held in private clubs and basements for reasons of discretion. Females usually enjoy this erotic romp of bi-sexual cock play of boy on boy.
Many income opportunities are available and will go into some more of them in future segments. All in all he is property, make no mistake about that and has no choice but to obey you and do as he is told and commanded. The strange thing about a man-pet is that the more he is trained the more he desires to please you. His submission to you is his bond like a well trained puppy to entertain you and please you. The more you make him bark the more he will love you!