How to get Dates with Women - Your Starting Guide
Alright guys, we’re going to figure out how to get a date this weekend. This procedure doesn’t start on Friday night however, you must use the previous week to collect phone numbers and meet people that will ultimately help you set up Friday and Saturdays dates. When you break it down, it’s really just a numbers game. If you don’t go on many dates and you hope to meet a woman hit it off the first night and live happily ever after you’re in for a bit of a surprise.
For example, say you spend Monday to Thursday meeting new people, getting numbers and interacting with girls. If you can get 10 numbers in a week, you might get a response from 4 or 5 of them if you text or call them. Remember, even if a woman has given you her phone number, it doesn’t automatically mean she wants to go on a date. Some women give their number away just to end an interaction. In any case, you want to amass as many numbers as you can because things always come up and even if she flakes, you’ll have other numbers to message.
Here’s where you decide what your evening entails. You have control in this situation. You can do anything from a fancy dinner, to a cheap coffee, drinks at a bar, or dancing at a club. Whatever you feel like doing, it’s up to you. Have the mindset you’re going out to have fun and she’s lucky to tag along. If you and some friends are going to a special function, get her to dress up and bring her with you. Don’t ask what she wants to do. Take the lead and tell her what you guys are going to do. If she isn’t interested she’ll make up an excuse not to go. That’s fine though, if she’s not game, you move on to the next one who is. You don’t need to spend all your time and effort persuading a girl you’re fun or exciting.
Remember, it’s a numbers game. It’s nothing personal. If a girl likes you, that’s fine. If she doesn’t like you, that’s fine too. You’re never going to get good with women if you don’t put yourself out there, meet new people, ask for dates, get numbers, or go for the close. Your level of success is directly associated with the amount of effort you put in. Well, that and the correct mindset.
So if you approach a girl tomorrow and she says yes, let’s grab a drink on Friday and at the last second she bails. No problem, you have 3 other numbers to try for last second plans. If you put all your attention and effort into just one girl you’d be left with nothing to do.
To review - we want to spend Monday - Thursday approaching women, during the day or at night if you go out. This can be anything from a quick conversation with someone on your lunch break to meeting someone new on the way home from work. Compile numbers and talk to them throughout the week. Set up lunch or coffee during the week if you can and if that goes well put something together for Friday or Saturday night. Midweek dates are not necessary but if you can make time for them they really help build comfort and give you a greater chance of success later on.
The more you try the more success you will have, start setting up dates now.