Mood:  don't ask

Today is saturday. There is 23 days ago I come back France. This week I lost time to have quarrel with my girl. What was my fault? I said to she that she should find a job. She gave to herself much pressure. She thought too much about. And she decided to get a job the best is to be a single. In my mind it's a really stupid thought. Leave your boyfriend because you want get a job... She is free. She doesn't anything at home. She wakes up when she wants. She buys what's she wants. However she decides to leave me to get a job. I don't enforce she to stay at home. I don't enforce she to get a job. I don't refuse to give money to she. Then why does she want to leave me to get a job. Our quarrel was for 4 days.  Now we are in peace. 

I am in trouble. What should I do?