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Thank you for visiting my page at Angelfire. Please come back and visit again! Hereafterwards, I do not want your father/mother/brother to call my home. If they want to say anything, you call. My folks and myself would not like to talk to any of your family members. I had written the following, even before you left spore, I did not have an idea to send it, but it looks like you guys are ever ready to dig up false things against me. Let me know what about these... ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Escapist/Egoistic/lazy. After your delivery you wanted to study, and escape coming back here, If you could have come there, things could have been more smooth. Your escapist and egoistic tendency will only come back as bigger issue to haunt you. I never asked you to stay there, its was your decision, if you mum is sick because of that, you take the blame from her. Who asked her to take care of the child? What was the need? You are one of the laziest persons I have seen lately. You said to my dad that you used to cook 3 times per day for me, im not sure what your cook means to you? It looks like it's a burden for you. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- sadistic: you and your mother have a habit of saying bad things over phone about family members in front of them to a third person (who is no way related to it) and I can sense the satisfaction in your face's. example: calling ur neighbor from Singapore and talking bad about your father, in front of him. By doing this, you are doing no good to yourself and your relationship with your dad. Is this the way your mum has bought you up? ----------------------------------------------------------------------- attitude and character: your mum and dad, they don't talk to each other for the last 15-20 years, even if they talk, they talk via a 3rd person. - will a family/children in this family have a good attitude? Don’t tell me you were grown up in a family. remember the night you and your mother - fighting physically with your dad? that old chap was frightened to death and ran into the bathroom, and slept there the whole night in the wet bathroom floor, - even people have some sympathy towards a dog, I don't care what your father did to you guys.. is this the way to behave? - its illiterate and tribal. Since your child, you mum is feeding you slowly about her good talents and inablities of your father. She is also feeding you hatred against your father and her 'koonittu character' to you. She was sucessful in that - she was able to create a division in her family (your father on one side, you guys on the other). Whatever you guys had listened is a one person view. Each coin has got two sides, If your mother was capable, she could have mend all her problems with her husband, rather than creating divisions. You are a grown up, but you don’t have the common sense to see what is right from wrong. I have seen many times, your father sitting in the hall, you 3 going into a room, shutting the door and having a conference for few hours together talking nonsense. This happened many times here and when I was there in palakkad, the night you and your mother created a scene. That day too, you guys were physically assaulting your father. I sensed something that day, that you mind has been screwed up. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Your claim when you were here: I'm close to your father: this is bull-shit! what support did your father gave to me? all he did is "truck loads of problems" transferred to me via marriage, your father and mother made a mess of their life and expect things to get settled via me? I don't care and I don't want to know anything about your problems at home. Its your mum and dad to solve it yourselves. If its there for last 20 years, solve it first and don't blame their "inabilities" to another person. Your mum has become an angry kezhavi, because of her ego and attitute, and also because she does not get what she wants from her husband. your mum don't need to give any advise to me, when she does not know how to maintain her family, Ask you mum to just shut up and get along well with your dad first! ------------------------------------------------------------------------ your mum: taking inputs from above points, when she does not talk to your dad, she will assume things - since no communication. she will just try to co-relate different situations and make a bad judgment, she has feeded this technique to you since child. when you came here last January, you said you wont go back whatever happens, what happened now after your mum came here? your have been brain washed. after me talking for hours to-gather on 9th may, and telling each and everything like to a child, it was decided you guys wont be going. you mum says pls book ticket for 3 of us, - I was foolish enough that time to miss her point, that even at that time, she only wanted to go back bringing both of you with her... since she does not have support of her husband, she wants the child to be with her, so she wont feel lonely.. what to call that? You and your mother are same, even if you guys get to heaven, you will complain. - or do an escape from there. Another thing, you mother, after eat/shit at my house for couple of months, all she was able to do was "shutting the door" on my face, which by the way belongs to me, and do all the childish silly things to irritate people… like keeping the child away from me (when I come back from office, she runs to pick up the child who is busy playing, she tries her best to keep the child, this kezhavi is still a kid.. a pattikad kezhavi. Your mum has become an angry kezhavi, because of her ego and attitute, and also because she does not get what she wants from her husband. Remember what all things she used to tell me? That I will 'suffer like anything', call me names, I don’t call people bad names unless provoked.. your mum don't need to give any advise to me, when she does not know how to maintain her family, Ask you mum to just shut up and get along well with your dad first! ---------------------------------------------------------------------- cheating: you and your mother have a issue that I have cheated you guys. - ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Below points are after you called me to my mobile (14th July) :- ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- You said I sent you home, how will that happen? The whole truth fell apart after a month? Your mum wont go back alone and you were the one who asked me 'n' number of times to get a ticket for you and the child and on the same day and same flight? You forgot that? So why you say I sent you home? Another point is, you said I did not call you to Singapore after 2 months of delivery, is that the truth? - I asked many a times, this thing came from your own mouth - "that, whenever I called you during those days, you used to keep quite, you don’t say a word" And why did your father say to my folks that I used to drink and not come home? Did you ever see me drinking and not coming home after work when we both were alone? - you said it - remember - "you said to your dad that I'm not a person like him who does not come home" - try to remember that. I came home late a few days after buying the air ticket, that is only because of the torture of your mother, I hate to see her for the things you guys did to me. Remember about a year ago, when I came to your house, you mum creating a scene for nothing and demanding to your dad that 'pls get a divorce from this guy' - you have heard it, so its actually your mum's idea, infact she had told it numerous times, whenever I hear it.. I was sad, your illiterate mother should understand - what will a person feel when she talks like that!
