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       Welcome to It's Okay To.. A support group for those who have been affected by a miscarriage, still birth, or ectopic pregnancy. No matter when this has happened it will forever touch your life. We all go through the healing process differently, some of us by crying, being angry with the world, distancing ourselves, or by simply shutting down all emotions. It is okay to handle this loss in many different ways. We are here to share each others pain and to help to heal the void that is in us.   

                     

       

                                                                                        


      I thought of you and closed my eyes, 

And prayed to God today. 

I asked what makes a Mother, 

And I know I heard him say: 

A mother has a baby, 

This we know is true. 

But, God, can you be a mother, 

When your baby's not with you? 

Yes, you can he replied, 

With confidence in his voice. 

I give many women babies, 

When they leave is not thier choice. 

Some I send for a lifetime, 

And others for a day. 

And some I send to feel your womb, 

But theres no need to stay. 

I just don't understand this God, 

I want my baby here. 

He took a breath and cleared his throat, 

And then I saw a tear. 

I wish that I could show you, 

What your child is doing today, 

If you could see your child smile, 

With other children who say: 

We go to earth and learn our lessons, 

Of love and life and fear. 

My mommy loved me oh so much, 

I got to come straight here. 

I feel so lucky to have a mom, 

Who had so much love for me. 

I learned my lessons very quickly, 

My mommy set me free. 

I miss my mommy oh so much, 

But I visit her each day. 

When she goes to sleep, 

On her pillow's where I lay. 

I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek, 

And whisper in her ear. 

"Mommy don't be sad today, I'm your baby and I'm here." 

So you see my dear sweet one, 

Your children are Ok. 

Your babies are here in My home, 

They'll be at heavens gate for you. 

So now you see what makes a mother. 

It's the feeling in your heart. 

It's the love you had so much of, 

Right from the very start. 

Though some on earth may not realize you are a mother, 

until their time is done. 

They'll be up here with Me one day, 

And you'll know that you're the best one! 


 

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