Her Main Concern is the Pleasure of Allah(swt)

The true Muslim woman always seeks to earn the pleasure of Allah (swt) in everything she does. So she measures everything against this precise standard, and will retain or discard any practice accordingly.

Whenever there is a conflict between what pleases Allah (swt) and what pleases other people, she chooses what pleases Allah (swt), with no hesitation or argument, even if it will anger other people. She does this because she knows, with her deep understanding of Islam and her own common sense, that pleasing the people is a goal that can never be achieved, and it will only bring about the wrath of Allah (swt). The Prophet (saas) said:

"Whoever seeks the pleasure of Allah (swt) at the risk of displeasing the people, Allah (swt) will take care of him and protect him from them. But whoever seeks the pleasure of the people at the risk of displeasing Allah (swt), Allah (swt) will abandon him to the care of the people." (Bukhari and Muslim)

By weighing up her deeds in this precise fashion, the Straight Path will be clearly sign-posted for the Muslim woman. She will know what she is allowed to do and what she should avoid; her unfailing standard is the pleasure of Allah (swt). Thus the life of the Muslim women will be free from ridiculous contradiction which have ensnared so many of those who have deviated from the guidance of Allah (swt).

There are women whom one sees praying perfectly, but in many instances they follow their own desires and deviate from the right path. In social gatherings they involve themselves in gossip and backbiting, criticizing people, plotting against anybody they dislike, and putting words in their mouths so as to discredit them. These people are suffering from weakness of faith and a failure to understand the true reality of this holistic religion which Allah (swt) revealed to guide mankind in all aspects of life, both public and private, so that people might seek the pleasure of Allah (swt) by obeying His commands and emulating the behavior of the Prophet (saas).

There are also women who obey Allah (swt) in some matters, but disobey Him in others, acting according to their own whims and desires. Such people are, as it were, Half-Muslims, and the split personality of those who have deviated from the guidance of Islam is one of the most dangerous psychological and spiritual disorders facing modern man.