I guess I should tell you a little of my background and experience. Well I have been the person of advice giving for as long as I remember. People come to me to hear my scholarly words of wisdom.
Hey everyone! Alright, this is my fourth year at this website. Times are getting tough. I've gotten so many letters I don't know what to do with them. Keep them coming. I'm going back to posting them up so that others can learn from YOU'RE mistakes.
Yeah so Crabster, check this out. There really was a chick in my room that day. I was invited to a huge end of the semester bash last week and as a was dancing on the dance floor some serious hottie came up to me and asked me if I remembered her. I said no and she got all pissed and threw a beer on me. Then she yelled, "Well I want my bra back, Dick!"
I just couldn't help but laugh. So I woke up this morning and was cruisin' the net and stumbled upon your page. You wanted to know what happened and that's it. Keep writin' Crabster.
Brahead
Dear Crabby,
It has been weeks since I broke up with this girl, but , geesh, I still
feel like crap. Will this feeling ever end?? I guess part of it is
because the way I treated her. I wished I had treated her more kindly
and gentler. And the way I expected so many things of her. The guilt is
killing me and keeping me up at nights, surfing the net for an answer,
praying to God that I can forgive myself for such cruelty performed on
another human being. Me and her are still friends, but we havent really
talked ever since we broke up. I dont know how can I tell her how bad I
feel and how much I miss her and how much I love her.... We had to break
up, due to circumstances I do not wish to reveal right now... Oh boy, I
really miss her. She was the best thing that ever happenned to me... I
nearly died when we broke up,,, it felt like my heart was going to burst
and I was going to stop breathing and choke on my own blood caused by my
ruptured heart... oh well... any advice or helpful words would be really
nice...Thank you..
hurting in the pacific,,
Hurting in the Pacific,
what did you do to this girl? Are you sure you did anything at all or are you just trying to find a reason for the breakup? Circumstances can be a real pain in the ass but the thing you have to remember is that circumstances are TEMPORARY. Think about it. Those circumstances may not be there anymore. You're still friends but can you reconcile? Look within yourself. That's the only answer.
Dear Crab,
It seems you give pretty good advice, so, Hope you can help me out... I met
a girl at a party when i was visiting my brother In another State. I don't
know much about her, except that she is beautiful yet seemed 'down to earth'
and had academic/artistic interests other than typical 'drinking and
partying' grrrl -- This is a real Turn On for me, cause rarely do i meet
women that have both qualities and are single. And therein lies the
problem(s) - she told me she 'had a boyfriend'; and also, she lives about
nine hours away but close to where my parents live. What should i do? Is
this a relationship worth pursuing?
Signed,
Perplexed
Perplexed,
Maybe you do like this new kid a lot but you never really came to terms with the end of your last relationship. It's very common and there's nothing to be ashamed of. You're not hurting anyone by being honest. If you really like this guy think about all the reasons why. List them if you like. Think about all pro's and con's of your Ex. Keep in mind there is a reason that he's your Ex. Come to terms with
your true feelings. Be honest with yourself. Take a chance either way but don't forget yourself in the situation. You can just as easily hurt yourself as you might hurt one of them.
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