My page..... It sounds funny to read it out loud. But this is my page.
Merry Meet Friends...take off your coat, kick off your shoes, relax.....
Welcome to My Home
First thing's first...I'll tell you a bit about myself:
My real name is Rebecca, but you may know me as wILDfLOWER* in the chat house.
When chatting with me or my friends, I ask 3 things of you:
NEVER ask for my stats, or for the stats of the people around me. Stats are irrelevant pieces of information. Stats, to me and my friends, consists of: Age, Gender & Appearance. Superficial things. Who cares what I look like. And for those who say it is important to "chat" my response is: prove it. Prove how whether I'm a blonde or brunnette matters if I can form thoughts and opinions. Prove that whether I'm a male or female matters when we discuss the weather or the latest music. When you can prove those things to me, we'll talk about stats.
If I'm chatting about something you're interested in, join in. I welcome different opinions and try to look at views objectively and with an open mind. Please remember...people should get to know one another, and like one another, from the inside out.
No matter what, even if you're in the worst of moods, always be yourself, but please don't take a foul temper out on us. Let your feelings go, if you feel the need to, but we ask that you keep any foul language to a minimum and that you don't resort to petty name calling...never act any differently from who you really are and yet, show us the best you can possibly be. Friends know both sides of you, the good and the bad....but we don't judge you.
Unless you are, beyond a shadow of a doubt that I, or any of my friends have done something to offend you, please don't second guess our thoughts or feelings and NEVER, EVER, be rude to us. We are, by all definitions, a family. We love and feel and care and hurt for one another and with one another. We admit our mistakes and accept responsibility for our actions. We're not perfect; we're not there for your entertainment or amusement.
If you hear something, if people whisper rumours to you about me or my friends, be mature and come to us about it, and be assured that you'll get a truthful answer...for I am not a liar, and I don't choose liars for friends. Honesty earns you respect and trust.
First, there's my father. *beaming smile* I love him very much. I live with him since the divorce...he gets a great deal of respect from me. It's great to have a father who is very open minded about things I'm involved with and things I want to learn...and yes, he's still there to say "no" when it's needed, and he's always there with open arms when I need him to be.
(I want a pic of daddy here...)
Then there's my mother...yes, I love her. Unconditionally. But it would be nice to have that same acceptance in return. Sadly, as little time as we have together, she has to waste it trying to make me into something I'm not in order to please her....and not giving a thought to how happy I am just being me.
He has always been a wonderful, kind and understanding man. He doesn't treat me like a child, yet knows I am one. It wouldn't have mattered to me if he worked as a store clerk, a doctor or a rock star. The qualities and intellect of the inner man spoke for itself. If anything ever happened to my real father, and I had a choice to pick and chose.....he would be my first ever choice. His three girls are very, very lucky to have such an understanding, caring man to love and guide them without smothering them. The man inside what the world sees, is the man I've come to know and love as a daughter.
Please be patient while Mama finds a more agreeable guestbook host *smile*
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