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Making Love |
Many men have been reared on "porn movies, and believe what a woman wants is a sweaty pump and plenty groaning to the "end"....(We are not talking about LUST situations here, where both partners are "inlust", that is a complete different issue) If that is your way of thinking....you are WRONG....You need to train the eager penis to take things at slow pace....Make use of phrases while intimate such as "I want to feel myself in you".... "I want this to last forever"....Spend as much time as possible on foreplay....Once you enter her try to at least force yourself not to jerk your hips as if you are having an epileptic fit....Instead, vary the movements with slow deep thrusts, and slow shallow thrusts, or even go for the clitoral grind (the figure 8 actions). Tell her how good she feels.
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Crisis Situations | At times when your woman becomes depresses you may feel
compelled to tell here where she is going wrong....where she
messed up in the first place....and what she should be doing
instead....What you don't realise is that she does not want
your verbal opinion on a subject you know very little about
such as the internal politics of her workplace or her
troublesome ovaries. To make her believe you understand,
simply listen without speaking....unless specifically asked
for advise....You may even nod every now and then
encouragingly, even make a few sounds of sympathy....if you
are not sure how to do this...watch her close female friends
to discover how to make "convincingly supportive silent
faces" Remember, no matter how powerful and logical your
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Occasions | Celebrate silly occasions, woman tend to set great value on
anniversaries . Obviously you need to remember her
birthday....but woman remember things like "your first
kiss"....most of you will not remember it....I will
leave that up to you to find out the details, you can do some
subtle fishing in advance to persuade her to reveal the
date....she would like you to remember the first time you
said "I love you" to her....DON'T try to attempt to
organise a celebration about the first time you got her to go
"down" on you for example...celebrations must be
romantic in nature....When the day arrives that you
"remembered" give her a card with the words
"thank you " on it...or "love you"
etc....she will melt in your arms like an ice-lolly under a
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Scoring with women 2 | ||
Telepathy | Woman love and need to feel spiritual with their
partners....So, convincing her that your minds can
communicate with phrases such as "about to say the exact
same thing" when she says something at random or
unpredictable...Or use what knowledge you know of her
character and adapt them to her current
"mood"....and then gently tell her what you think
she is thinking at that moment....Yes, while all this seems
so frivolous....if you do not use these tips...you lose
out....it is just the way it is...Woman accept that men are just
the way they are, and you need to do
the same for woman without scorn or ridicule or questioning
it....just because men behave and think a little different on
some issues....and woman think and feel different on
different issues. What it all comes down to...we both need
the same things....love, acceptance, respect and sex. We just
need to go about it in different ways....our ways of
achieving these fun, wonderful gifts from the opposite sex
differ...so what we need to do is "give in " a
little.... and what we don't understand....pretend to...for
peace sake...(and of course the good stuff) |
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Love Poems | ||
Lighting | You may be perfectly happy with a 100 watt glare illuminating
all the "activity"....but to your partner, lighting
sets the mood....it creates it or destroys it....Her
"mood" can be altered by a neon light, and a soft
glowing candle....You may not see way you need to try to
imitate a 17th century peasants outhouse....but she will
appreciate your romantic gesture....there is never a wrong
occasion to light a candle....You can also run a bath for her
and fill it with scented candles....it will lead her to
believe that you understand what it is like to be a stressed
woman, and she will be grateful for your "kindness and
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Non-erotic areas | Woman frequently complain that partners can't cuddle without
expecting sex....While you hope that the slightest touch to
her hand will fill her with lust and have her jumping on you
like a sex crazed fool....it serves your interest better to
convince her that you merely seek true intimacy. SO...while
watching the telly together, take her hand as if it is a
precious jewel. Yes, she will stiffen expecting it to be
placed on your crotch....Reassure her by keeping your eyes
fixed on the screen and continue the stroking in a rhythmic
pattern. Run your fingers over the back of her hand, playing
idly with each finger for example. She will be convinced that
you cherish her nearness and have no ulterior motives....THEN
when you finally initiate sex....she will assume it is not
just boredom or lust, but a true desire to be intimate..... |
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While woman appreciates your continuing attraction to her
while you are apart, you telephone manner can leave much to
be desired. When she is at work, a simple exchange of
information's is about as erotic as it gets....and even when
at home....attempts at "phone sex involving you blurting
out "what colour panties are you wearing" like a
sex - line - call....won't do....Woman prefer written
endearments to spoken obscenities....Try to email
her....impress her by your mastery....Use it to contact her
the way the Victorians wrote those long love yearning
letters.... You can write your message perfectly either
loving sweetly or with erotic longing....Either way the
format leads itself to a more convincing statement off sexual
affection than you shouting "now squeeze your
nipples" into a speaker phone as she attempts to start a
meeting....(Think about adding a romantic poem as well) Thee
and thine stuff does wonders....check my poem page or surf
the net for great romantic quotes and poetry....Also look on
my romantic page for loads of animated romantic gifs you can
copy and send with the email....Romantic animated banners
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Eyes and
Bedtime |
Although you may prefer to be in your own little world, with
your eyes shut, so you can project the face of her best
friend onto your girlfriends body, she prefers it when she
"knows" you are "involved"....INTIMACY is
a big deal to woman....so keep a suitable expression fixed to
your face, and look no where but into her eyes while you
touch or caress her....she does not want you peering intently
at her genitals like Jacques Cousteau examining a giant
squid.... |