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It is every Christian’s dream and hope. To find your perfect someone and know that each of you has been waiting your entire lives for each other.
My hope and dream has come true. My fiancé is the exact Biblical definition of a perfect woman. I have been waiting for her and she for me. My fiancé was sexually assaulted when she was younger. Through prayer and conversation, I have seen her go from victim to victorious survivor to strong advocate for awareness. But whenever I would tell her that I was proud of her virginity, she would thank me but shy away. I came to the realization that she did not think of herself as a virgin. She seemed to feel like she could not give me what I was waiting to give to her. I thought about that. And I came to this conclusion: rape cannot take away one’s virginity. Virginity is not a physical thing. It cannot be involuntarily given away. Virginity is a gift from God. It is a gift that He gives to everyone. However, this gift is to be given away to the human that you have chosen to love more than anyone else in this world. The Bible says that “Whatsoever God hath put together, let no man turn asunder.”
I understand that there are physical characteristics that female virgins have. However, you can have characteristics of things but not be those things. So, why can’t the opposite be true? A guy who is 7 foot 5 inches does not always have to be a basketball player, right?
I told my fiancé this. I told her that she was still a virgin. Not to make her feel better (which she did) but to tell her the truth about herself. She felt better because she believed me. Or, she believed what I was saying and she accepted the scripture used as proper evidence.
This site is for people who thought that their virginities were taken away from them. The world may not accept what we are saying in this site but, check with the Bible. One’s virginity is a very precious thing. God has given each one of us this gift. The gift lies within our souls. Virginity is just the next step in God’s plan for true love. And, love is not love, until you give it away. Just like someone cannot take your love from you, your virginity cannot be taken away from you.
Look inside yourselves. You’ll find that your virginity is there. It was there the entire time. Waiting for you to realize that you still had it. It is not something that you can convince yourself that you have just to make yourselves feel better. It is there. Waiting for you to give it away to someone. Ladies and Gentlemen, if you so desire to ever give your virginity to someone, give it to one you love most. The one who has given you or taken your last name.
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