Disclaimer: If you are too young to be reading this page, go visit Scarleteen: Sex Education for the Real World instead.

Book recommendations:

"The New Good Vibrations Guide to Sex" by Cathy Winks and Anne Semans, Cleis Press, 1997. (the one, the only, the utterly indispensible, every household should have one ...)

"Anal Pleasure and Health" by Jack Morin PhD, Down There Press, 3rd edition, 1998 (the more-specific-but-possibly-even-more-indispensible)--or visit http://www.sexuality.org/morin98.html

"The Survivor's Guide to Sex" by Staci Haines, Cleis Press, 1999. (The book is aimed at women who are survivors of sexual abuse, but would actually be relevant to anybody, female or male, who has experienced any sort of trauma)

Sources and Resources:

Good Vibrations (US)
Blowfish (US)
Womynsware (Canada)

(I haven't yet found out where the Ozzies can get Liquid Silk from ...)

N.B.

Canonically, Peacekeepers are vaccinated at birth against all known diseases. The rest of us need to practice safer sex.