- Your boyfriend has been really grumpy.
How do you cheer him up ?
a) You throw a surprise party and invite his closest friends
b) By asking him why he’s being such a grump and doing your
best to help him out of his phase
c) By being really soothing and understanding until he cheers
2.
You’ve
just been to your friend’s party, and did not have much fun at all. The music
was bad, the food and drinks both terrible and inadequate, and the guests were
boring. What do you tell your friend as you’re leaving ?
a) ‘Best party I’ve ever been to !’
b) ‘Nonsense, it wasn’t boring ! I had fun !’
c) ‘I’m so sorry that it was such a disaster.’
3.
You
need a favor from a guy you don’t know too well. How do you go about asking him
?
a)
You seek
his advice in a flattering way, and see if you can get him to suggest the favor
as his own idea
b)
You ask
him nicely, and aren’t too upset if he refuses
c)
You beg
him for help, praise him, and hope he eventually caves in
4.
How
open are you regarding the discussion of your personal life ?
a)
You’re very
selective about the people that you open up to about your personal life
b)
You don’t
see the point in admitting your personal feelings
c)
You’re
very open – you believe in being totally honest and open
5.
One
of your friends is upset because her long-time boyfriend broke up with her.
What do you do ?
a)
Sneakily
introduce her to other men
b)
Try to get
her mind of the situation by talking about other things
c)
Sympathize
with her and encourage her to talk about it
6.
Are
you good at remembering names and faces ?
a)
You pride yourself
on your excellent ability to remember people’s names, faces, and what you
talked about the last time you met
b)
You have
no trouble remembering the really interesting people you meet, although the
quiet or shy ones tend to fade from your mind
c)
You have
to meet someone many times before you are able to memorize their name
7.
At
work, the task of firing one of the staff members is appointed to you. How do
you break it to her ?
a)
You burst
into tears and say how much everyone will miss her
b)
Explain
that it wasn’t her fault, things just weren’t working out
c)
Emphasize
exactly why she was dismissed, listing the reasons behind it
HOW
DID YOU SCORE ?
Mostly
A’s: Aren’t you the charming one ? You could charm the stars out
of the skies if you had a mind to ! Men flock to you, and women want to be your
friend. You’ve achieved this from hard work, a desire to please people, and a
willingness to bend the truth if you think that someone’s feelings will be hurt
otherwise. However, there are a few drawbacks to being so charming. You may
lack intimate relationships, making you feel lonely and drained. Don’t strain
so hard to please ! Be yourself.
Mostly
B’s: A happy medium, you’re popular amongst your circle of
friends, but you don’t tend to drift into easy friendships outside of that
circle. You are thoughtful, amusing, and considerate, and a very good friend.
Your warmth and loyalty are unsurpassed.
Mostly
C’s: Honesty is the best policy in your opinion, whether it
upsets others or not. You’d never lie, even to spare someone from being hurt.
You’d never be nice to someone’s face if you didn’t like them – if you had a
problem with them, they’d know about it. Your honesty is good, but try to
sweeten it a bit. Otherwise, you may find that your friends around you get a
little hurt or offended, and that’s not cool.