::ok, here is a message from Mrs. Chasez that was sent to me that had been posted on a message board. to answer all of you who have doubts, yes it is the real Mrs. Chasez (JC's mom). i have to say i agree with her 100% because these kind of girls just ruin it for everyone else because they have to bulk up their security (who won't let them near anyone or anything). i mean, i'm sure they could spend a little more time with fans to show their appreciation but that's their decision and their time. so, everyone should respect that because these guys do NOT like girls who scream and throw themselves at them. if it was meant to be for you to meet them, it'll happen and if its not...just think that you're being saved from finding out that they are just regular guys:op::
"I think respect is key to all human interactions that are
healthy. And I agree with Patricia that fans--millions of them now--are key
to 'N Sync's popularity and success. To me the issue is not keeping 'N Sync
members cocooned from their fans but that the fans have opportunities to
interact/restrict themselves to interacting in positive and appropriate
ways.
Outside the regular way 'N Sync members meet hundreds of fans weekly (at
Meet
N Greets, television shows, charity events etc.), I know the guys almost
always enjoy a passing compliment on their work, no matter how busy and
tired
they are. If they run into one or two fans, they almost unfailingly stop
briefly for a greeting or autograph or picture. These are minimal
intrusions.
Sometimes, however, the aggressiveness of fans does go beyond respectful and
reasonable bounds in my estimation. Calling my hotel room repeatedly even
after being told JC at age 23 doesn't share a hotel room with his parents,
calling my daughter's room and putting her on the radio live without warning
and without her consent, trying to bribe hotel staff into entering family or
'N Sync rooms with gifts or to lift items, hovering outside the door of a
"suspected" hotel room to see what can be heard--to me these are not
respectful. I don't think anyone--well-known or not--enjoys these kind of
things. Thirty to 50 excited fans converging on my son simultaneously all
with cries for pictures and autographs when he is trying to make it from the
building door to the car is, to me, beyond the bounds of respect. Even in
this situation--30 or more fans eager to see him--my son is not overly
bothered by those who call out a compliment or take photos from a social
distance. Being swarmed at close quarters and bombarded with repeated
requests for individual pictures and autographs in that setting is not
pleasant, however. And the possibility of injury to someone in the crush is
unsettling. In addition, to accommodate one you must accommodate all or be
unfair--and there isn't time for all. Repeated interruptions from strangers
while dining are not pleasant (or respectful in my opinion), but I see the
guys frequently stopping to say hello, posing for a picture or signing an
autograph when leaving a restaurant. While I agree calling aggressive fans
stalkers as a group is an overgeneralization, I will admit to sometimes
being
concerned about a few whose fixations and pursuits of individual
interactions
and knowledge of the guys seem to be unhealthy. Many individuals who are not
well-known also deal with this problem, and it is very troublesome for them.
I would be concerned if I were their mom too.
JC's Mom"
