Kelsey Alexis Weidman
This is a page dedicated to Kelsey Alexis Weidman, Born January 28, 1984, she is the woman I love, and I just thought I'd tell who ever is reading this the story of us.
The Date: February 14th, 1999
The Place: The Palace (an internet chat program)
I had recently heard about a girl named Kelsey from a friend at school, and how she had been mistreated by an ex-boyfriend, and it was quite coincidental how we met, I was on this chat program messin around and I started talking to this girl, and I asked her name and she told me and I couldnt believe it, this was the same person my friend was talking about at school, it was amazing that we met after I had heard about her bad luck, I learned more about it while talking to her, then I started being me and tried making her feel better and tried getting her to laugh and stuff, you know the things I do, and we were friend from that day forward, we had because very close, although there was one problem, she lived in Leduc, Alberta, I lived in Calgary Alberta, about a 2.5 hour drive away, problem #2 comes up right now, I didnt have a drivers lisence, and neither did she, so we were confined to phone calls (which were few and far between, because I hate phones) and the internet chat, I told her one day I wanted to meet her because I was wanting to be more than just friends, so on August 25th, 1999, I had my opportunity, a few days earlier I had told her I would be in Sylvan Lake visiting my Aunt (only 1 hour away from Leduc) which would be a good thing because she was gonna go visit her Grandmother in Eckville (15 minutes away from Sylvan Lake) so on August 25th 1999 we met for the first time, we spent the whole day together, doing various activities eventually the day ended, we were laying on the beach, and we were talking, and then she kissed me, cue the symphony of love, I fell for her, and I fell hard, but there was always that problem of distance, I still lived in Calgary, she still lived in Leduc, so after we parted ways that day, I was love sick for quite a while, and she would eventually move on quicker than me, and she found a few boyfriends one would have her for almost 3 years.
We would continue to be friends, only talking on the internet, I would hear problem after problem with her boyfriend, and although I wanted to say "leave his ass and come to me" that would be selfish, so I just lent my ear and shoulder to her, she could talk into my ear and lean on my shoulder when she needed it, I knew back then one day I would get one more chance, and thats all I wanted was just one more chance to be with her and I wouldnt mess it up, but until that day came I would have to be stuck in friend mode.
January 2001 came around and she was having another problem with her boyfriend, and I couldnt take it anymore, I had things pickin up at work, I had things pickin up with my wrestling federation, I was working on getting a deal with someone to get us on TV again, and I just couldnt stand not being with her anymore it hurt, but after that day, I deleted every chat program, I stayed away from the computer, (except to update the wrestling website) for the next year straight I would be forgetting all about finding love and relationship and shit like that, I focused on work and wrestling, and it turned out quite well I think, in 2002, I was able to get ECWcalgary(my wrestling federation) on a show called M-Style, I worked my way to the top of the ladder where I worked... at the end of 2002, I stopped wrestling for about 6 months, after the christmas season at work things slowed down, so in June 2003 I went back on one of those chat programs just to see what has changed in 2 years, that decision to come back on the computer changed things for me.
June 2003, I went on a chat program called mIRC and a familiar nickname said "hi" it was Kelsey, she was on there for the first time in a while as well, another coincidence, she told me she had been apart from her boyfriend for about 3 months, and that late last year she had problems stemming from a meningitis infection, one of the major problems was memory, and I was just so amazed she remembered me. In August 2003, she wanted to go camping with me, and I wanted to go with her, but I was afraid, what if what happened last time, happened again, so I made up a stupid excuse not to go, and I wish I hadnt of done that, then I had another opportunity to reunite with her in September, and we both took the opportunity. Our anniversary is on September 21st.
Now there is nothing more important to me in my life, anytime I am appearing unhappy, chances are she's not around, so for the rest of this page I think I'm gonna post some pictures of my lovely girlfriend. :)
Isn't she gorgeous, and all those pics of her wearing KISS make-up is because she had to do it, she lost a bet HAHAHAHA... I love her so much. I'll put more pictures up as time goes by, so stay tuned.
Email: phantom-xtreme@shaw.ca