I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself
to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.

I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's
important, it's what they do about it.

I've learned that you can do something in an instant,
that will give you a heartache for life.

I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it,
there are always two sides.

I've learned that regardless of your relationship with
your parents, you miss them terribly after they die.

I've learned that it take a long time to become
the person I want to be.

I've learned that it's a lot easier to react
than it is to think.

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones
with loving words, it may be the last time you see them.

I've learned that you can keep going long after you
think you can't.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do,
no matter how we feel.

I've learned that either you control your attitude
or it controls you.

I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy
a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there
had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned that heroes are the people
who do what has to be done, when it needs to be done,
regardless of the consequences.

I've learned that when the light turns green,
you had better look both ways before proceeding.

I've learned that you can love someone
and still not like them very much.

I've learned that there are people who love you dearly,
but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything
or nothing and still have the best time.

I've learned that sometimes the people you expect
to kick you when you're down
will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned that I'm getting more and more
like my mom, and I'm kinda happy about it.

I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry,
I have the right to be angry,
but it doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that true friendship continues to grow,
even over the longest distance.

I've learned that just because someone
doesn't love you the way you want them to,
doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that no matter how much I care,
some people just don't care back.

I've learned that you should never tell a child
his dreams are unlikely or outlandish.
Few things are more humiliating,
and it would be a tragedy if he believed it.

I've learned that your family won't always
be there for you. It may seem funny,
but people you aren't related to can take care of you
and love you, and teach you to trust people again.
Families aren't biological.

I've learned that no matter how good a friend
someone is they're going to hurt you
every once in awhile and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned that it isn't enough to be forgiven by others,
sometimes you have to forgive yourself.

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken,
the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned that our background and circumstances
may have influenced who we are,
but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned that sometimes when my friends fight,
I'm forced to choose sides even when I don't want to.

I've learned that just because two people argue,
it doesn't mean they don't love each other.

I've learned that sometimes you have to put
the individual ahead of their actions.

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust,
and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned that we don't have to change friends
if we understand that friends change.

I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager
to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I've learned that it's not what you have in your life,
but whom you have in your life that counts.

I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing
and see something totally different.

I've learned that a good friend is better than a therapist.

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you,
All you can do is be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them.

I've learned that it's hard to determine where
to draw the line between being nice and not hurting
people's feelings,and standing up for what you believe.

~ author unknown ~