Dragon Haven

~Dragon Haven~ First off a bit of info about the place we affectionately call "haven". For a little over four years now we have had a community or "group" on msn that has slowly grown based on looking for all those who are "dual form" or connected to "the ancient times". We originally started out as a place specifically for dragons. This is due to a few of us who felt a need for a place online for those us who are on this side of the gate; to congregate, give help, and occasionally chat. Hence the name: Dragon Haven.

After about six months we changed this to allow in those who had been raised by dragons or had learned from them back when they were still present on this plane of existence in true form. Well about three months after that things were revised once more as we found ourselves running across other dual forms who were needing a place to call their own; and finding one or two more people of various other stories who were connected to species other than dragons. So while our official name is dragon haven we are really only haven. But we dragons do protect the place and the people as we always have;-)

Now that you know we're nuts why don't I go a little deeper into showing how nuts we really are?

Dual forms

A dual form is a person with two physical forms and one soul. You could say the soul is "stretched" between both forms. This is rather different than a person who has been reincarnated and lived many different lives in different bodies. The way it is different is this: You have two physical forms alive at the same time rather than seperate times.

Many will tell you one cannot be dual form because a soul cannot occupy two physical forms at the same time. This would be true if said forms were on the same plane of existence; but with duals each physical body is on a seperate plane.

One plane is the one where I'm typing to you right now in a human form. The other is where my true form is. I call it my true form because that is my original form I was created in. That form has not died yet; therefore I am not a normal situation of a reincarnate. When my human form dies my soul naturally goes back to its true form. Once a being who is dual form is "awoken" they slowly gain the ability to function in both forms. In many ways, when not tranced out the otherside is more of a shadow realm in ones mind. When tranced out this side becomes a shadow realm to that side. Think of it as deciding which body to have mentally 'conscious' at the time.

Awakening

Now there is more than one meaning to the word "awakening". In many circles it means to "awaken to your inner self" or the real you. In a way that is what I mean as well just with a twist. A person who is dual form is "awoken" to their inner self as well as their inner self waking up...physically. While you've been in human form up to the time of your full awakening, your soul and your other form were both asleep. In many ways, our true form is in a coma like sleep the whole time until we are awoken. That is why the process of an outside awakening was complicated. You had to wake up the soul and the other form without letting the true physical form be so shocked it came through fully. Although I should note that is usually more a consequence of awakening someone prematurely.

Yes inner awakenings take longer and in some ways are much more frustrating. If the one doing the outside awakening does it right, usually within a few days the one who was awoken will easily be able to access their memories and can tell quickly what is imagination and what really is memory. They will also be able to use their true form almost instantly. Someone done with the outer method gets a shot of caffeine you could say. And will act like it. Not sleeping for days afterwards is normal. Forgetting (non-humanoids) how to walk in human form and making Really odd comments is normal as well.

Inner is a much slower, (and with the way some became) safer process. With inner annoyingly it's simple to confuse memories and imagination. With training, and others around who can confirm or deny what is in your head, this can be overcome til the final stage.

One practice that is good for all (dual form and human) to try is this: Notice what is going on in your day today, take one specific occurrence (preferably slightly mundane) and make no notes about it, just fixate it in your mind. Now that it's fixated wait a bit and go over it in your head. Now using your imagination create the situation again but vary some of the occurrences. If it was talking to a person change the color of what they were wearing. Nothing to flamboyant in the changes just minor enough that it isn't quite what happened.

At this point ignore the whole thing and go about your daily life letting all of it slip from your mind. Wait a week, now look back in your memory and figure out which is the real variation. To truly get a feel for all this you should try this by waiting a full month, but a week should work. If done right you'll have trouble telling for certain which was the real way it happened, all because both seem real. Now you understand how tricky this can get, because it seems real. Eventually you will learn the way to tell the difference in a memory by the feel; and be able to keep your imagination from taking hold when you only get a fragment of a memory and no more. Ah and then the next joy. You get to play "what life is this?". You just know you did this and this....but wait are you sure you're thinking it's in the life you were talking about? Argh.

One trick with memories is you can't look around nor can you change point of view. Think back to something in this childhood, you can recall everything you see in that memory right? But you can't turn your head in the memory unless your head was actually turning then. If it was someplace public and you missed seeing something off to your left then when you turn your head there and look that is imagination taking over. The real problem is remembering you didn't look there and you're making it up.

A false awakening is when someone goes through all the motions of awakening a dual form on someone who is human. Then they implant memories and let the person take it from there. Like a program you could say. Sadly these people will go through life convinced of what they are because they were "awoken". This is very hard to take care of and first they must be willing to face the fact someone did this to them. The greatest problem is these people are usually discovered years after it was done so at that point it's almost impossible to correct what was done. But, on the other hand it is simpler to find out who's behind that than the other way.

The other way is that of pushing a person into believing themselves to be what they are not. This method was done by treating someone who has likes for a specific being and slowly getting them used to the idea of them being it. And with that "memories" slowly come out. If you aren't speaking with them physically, the best thing to do is state what you see to be the truth about them, and then let them go on their merry way. A full false awakening combines both of these factors but the second one can be done singly.

Now as for false memories those can be done to both humans and dual forms. The strongest ones for dual forms are done when we are at our most vulnerable. This time being during an outside awakening. At that point the mind is malleable. Obviously this is dangerous. There's nothing like meeting someone of the junior council convinced he is an elder, and that he's one of the first created dragons. Ones who have implanted memories will usually have some sort of program going on as well. This can be extremely dangerous sometimes, as it may be something that calls for harm to be done to the one who was going to try to help. Perhaps teamwork is better during these times?

Miscellaneous

By now some of you are probably going �yup that�s me�, or �I remember this or that�. Ok fine no problem, but lets also discuss that one can tell by the energy of the soul if one is dual form or was connected back in ancient times. This is determined by simply reading the souls energy pattern which is how we always looked at others to find out.

Although haven may be young, being dual form is not a new concept just something new for the net. The longest awoken dual form alive at this time has been awoken for about 57 years (no she isn�t a member of haven). There are people in many ranges of years/decades fully awoken and there are many still just beginning the process out there.
If you truly believe you may be a dual form or were connected; then please get in touch with us. Also please contact us if you're interested in joining haven, just remember there is an application process (hehehehe)

There are of course ways to get in touch with us. One way is our Forum

To e-mail us please write to Haven. And please put dragon haven in the subject line if you would, we will respond as fast and as best as we can. P.S. Send no attachments as we won't open them, sorry about that.

Please remember our main goal is to seek out those who are needing help with all of this:-)

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