Awwwwwww Mona. I was going through this time when nothing seemed right. My daughter just announced that she was getting married. It wasn't that I didn't agree with her union, it was that I was losing my daughter to someone else. Oh, I got on the IM and found Mona through "Common Interest". Of course, I chose "Family". Mona was there with arms wide open. I told her all things about what bothered me about the wedding. She told me to think of the positive side. I am thinking, "What positive side? There is none." Oh was I wrong. The positive side was that I wasn't losing my daughter but gaining a son and in the future, a grandbaby. Mona is wise because she went through the things I go through at my time. I don't know that I would have gotten through things without her. She knows so much about me. I leave nothing apart from her. I tell all and she is offering me her shoulder to cry on. Mona and I did a page that we never dreamed of. It is called "Open Our Eyes". We got together to make a page for Lyme Disease because 2 of our friends had it. We wanted it to be an information page. When we got it all done, it was nothing of what we started off with. It is not an information page for Lyme Disease but instead is a page for all to rest. We didn't go to it for a couple of days and when we did, we both were in awe. We cried together. The Lord had other ideas. I think we all go through this thing where we do things wrong at times but we don't realize it. I sure didn't. I tended to put Mona off a bit and it definately made her sad. It seems to me that I never have enough time for her, but that is never more. Mona has been there for me and I will always be there for her. I do hope that I will never ruin our friendship because of my stupidity. She is a "keeper". I love you, Mona. Always and Forever.