You so SEXY!
Okay, so if you read the health section there is hopefully a part of you that is starting to suspect that being fat isn't unhealthy. Being fat is possibly even healthier than being thin. But thin is still sexy and fat is still gross, right?
I am a firm believer that whoever you are there's somebody out there who thinks you're the sexiest thing they've ever seen. It's a complicated combination of pheromones, genetics, and psychology, but we all know that preferences vary. My best friend will drool over any man with a muscular body, and never need to look above his neck. I don't care if a guy has a ripped or scrawny body, as long as he has that sexy, strong jaw line and some eyes I could drown in. My other best friend loves a nice baritone voice, and little else matters. I wouldn't notice if the guy could hit a soprano note. To each her own.
Everybody is different. There are certain traits that are culturally considered more attractive, and the individual is effected by the culture they live in, so a man who otherwise might prefer big women might see a little too much Baywatch and want a big-chested, slim blonde. It's environment over genetics.
My point in saying that is simply that Liv Tyler might have an easier time scoring than you or me, not necessarily because she's more beautiful or more skinny, but because many men have been affected by our culture, and since she's closer to the culturally "perfect woman," she will be considered more attractive.
But there are men who are not so easily influenced by our culture. There are some guys who say "I think big breasts are gross. More than a mouthful is a waste!" or "I don't actually think slim is sexy. I want somebody I can grab on to!" or even "I should have been born in France, because I sure do like hairy women!" Hey, whatever tickles your pickle, right?
This type of guy is really worth looking in to. He's not desperate. He just has a preference. Not only will a man like this want what you've got, but he's an individualist! He's not molded by peer pressure. He's mature enough to know what he likes and not hide it. My goodness,a mature man! What a catch!
Unfortunately, there's the closet fat lovers. They're a lot like closet homosexuals. They're humiliated by what they want, they don't want anybody to know, so they go out with people they aren't attractive to, or talk smack about the very women whom they lust after the most.
Careful of this guy. He's not that rugged individualist. He's that guy who wears what everybody else is wearing, who becomes a doctor because his mama wanted him to be even though he really wanted to be a novelist, and smoked a lot of pot in high school even though he hated the stuff. You might start dating him, but he avoids introducing you to his friends, and would rather stay home and watch a movie than go to his usual hang outs. 
He's a coward. Remember he's not really ashamed of you. He's ashamed of what he is and that's sad for him, but he's not worth your pity or your time. You need a man who's proud to step out with you on his arm. Nothing less than the best for you!
So, you're fat? You still don't believe me that somebody wants what you got? Get on a search engine and look up "fat admirers." There's a whole bunch of them, and they're all yearning for you. Girl, you so SEXY!
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