The other day I was on the bus and this gross beggar came on and started asking everybody for change. I felt the typical mix between revulsion and pity for the guy, and I wondered, as I always do, what combination of economic depravity and social exclusion had led to his current, disreputable state. He didn’t have any teeth, and was dressed in a uniformly gray outfit that seemed to have been stitched together from the most undesirable, threadbare patches of clothing that had already been cast aside.
I was just in the middle of trying to decide if it was fair to blame the United States’ propensity for economic world pollution for this guy’s sorry state, when he did something that totally disgusted me. He was standing behind a rather attractive woman, and he had just asked her for some money. She didn’t even acknowledge that he was there. I was hoping he was going to leave, but he didn’t. He stood there for a moment, and opened his mouth into his horrible, toothless grin. Then he leaned forward so that his lips were uncomfortably close to her naked neck.
Then, he sniffed a few times, like he was smelling her. He smiled, and kind of grunted, and then he wandered off. For some reason, the whole interaction made my blood boil. I wanted to pound the guy into pulp. It seems pretty horrible to have those feelings against some poor devil who has obviously been put on the outskirts of civilization, but I still felt it. His action was against the rules and deplorable. You don’t make that kind of unwanted advancement on somebody. It was a good thing he wandered away, because if he had stood around long enough for me to adequately process the information, I might have done something.
I only include this story to demonstrate the fact that I believe human beings should treat each other with respect. This is a thought that isn’t made clear in the modern media. The above story is something that the media would completely approve of, and although everything stated above is completely true and exactly what I feel, it might lead to an inaccurate assumption. The reason I had sympathy for the girl was that, even though she was attractive, she wasn’t overtly flaunting her sexuality. Her clothing was reasonable, and becoming to her, but it wasn’t designed to provoke a man. If the woman had been wearing high-heels and a tight little mini-skirt or something like that, I probably wouldn’t have given it a second thought when the bum came forward. I feel such outfits are disrespectful to men and designed to manipulate them and entice them. If you play with fire, you sometimes get burned.
Now this is something you NEVER hear in our ridiculously politically correct society, but there is a reasonable issue here that needs to be discussed. Women who dress extremely sexually provocatively are trying to intoxicate men so that they can gain some power over them. It is a scientific fact that men are biologically programmed to be rendered rather single-minded at the sight of a beautiful woman. It’s a evolutionary thing, and human beings are not as far removed from wild creatures as we would sometimes like to think. A man is fully capable of controlling himself so long as the stimulation doesn’t exceed a certain point. Also, some men have higher tolerances for others, but the fact remains that when a woman excessively flaunts her sexuality it is very similar to giving a man some kind of debilitating injection. It doesn’t matter if the woman doesn’t actually, physically, inject the man with something, if, while in her presence, his brain tells his glands to secrete this chemical into his bloodstream, she has intoxicated him.
It’s not something you can “just control,” the body is capable of making chemicals of extreme potency.
But if you bring this idea up in the newspapers or a classroom or whatever, people get indignant as if you are laying down the foundations for a belief system that justifies rape (that already exists by the way, it’s called the Catholic church).
I’m not bringing this up to justify rape. I’m bringing it up just to ask women to be aware that they have this effect on us and that they should take it seriously. I simply don’t like showing up to some meeting or whatever with the intent to discuss serious business, and then have one of the women members arrive in some overly-sexual outfit that makes it impossible for me to think. That’s bullshit and it is entirely disrespectful.
I think one of the main reasons that many men still have a problem with women in the work force is that they don’t bother to acknowledge the power they have over men, or to use it responsibly. I have no problem respecting women, but when they start trying to get something out of me by using their sexuality, then my reaction is to immediately not take them seriously or respect them. It is the only defense that I have, and it works very well. I don’t like to treat women like this, but it is better than the alternative of being turned into somebody’s lobotomized slave because I don’t have the willpower to control a billion years worth of evolutionary force.
There are a lot of women who understand the pure power of their sexuality, and others who use it unintentionally. They always give you that bullshit argument like, “I should be able to dress in a way that makes me feel comfortable and good about myself.”
Bullshit, that’s not their motivation for dressing like that. They don’t get all dolled up in their high heels and slut-make up when they’re at home all by themselves. They only do that when they know they are going to be in the presence of men they can intoxicate.
That’s a really shitty personality trait. It’s a really shitty way to treat other people.
It’s an interesting thing though. There are plenty of girls who manage to get themselves all dressed up pretty without being grotesquely overtly sexual. You can always see the honesty and respect in their eyes. They’re good people and they deserve to be treated with respect.
But if you’re in the company of one of those women who moans slightly at the end of every breath, who keeps arching her back and leaning forward slightly, who puts her mouth in an “O” and slides her finger along it....well, you’re in the hands of a viper who’s trying to intoxicate you with her sexuality in order to get something out of you. If you’re in that situation, there is only one thing you can do to save yourself. Keep repeating, “I will spend no money, I will do no favors for this woman until she has had sex with me.” Because if she is honest about the trade she is putting on the table, she should have no problem satisfying you first before you provide your end.
This situation is very similar to the one in the movies where the enemy is torturing you for information. No matter how much pressure they put on you, don’t give them what they want because as soon as they have it, they will kill you.
These women are dangerous damn it! And you can’t think when you have a hard-on. That should be a new law, contracts signed when the man has a hard-on are not valid.
It really should be up to other women to police this kind of thing. Woman who get by being sexual predators make it impossible for men to be fully respectful of any woman. It’s these sexual predators that keep men on guard, and also keep walls of suspicion firmly erected (good word).
We need a reasonable social dialogue on this problem just so that people can really responsibly understand what the forces are that drive both human beings and society.
But again, whenever I bring this up people just start bitching at me like I am a rape sympathizer, and evil, and a woman hater and all that shit. Christ!
But I’m not going to change my opinion. Women who attempt to excite men by dressing and acting provocatively are showing blatant disrespect (unless, of course, they actually mean to go through with all their posturing), once somebody disrespects you, you are no longer under any obligation to respect them.
This is also why I think sex should be gotten out of the way as soon as possible when you start dating somebody. It is only after you are allowed to see a woman outside of the haze of sexual intoxication, that you really know if it is somebody you are going to be able to stand to be with for any length of time. If a woman doesn’t want to have sex with you after more than a week, it’s because she knows damn well she has nothing to offer other than her promise of sex, and she’s only going out with you because you pay for her damn dinner. Women who have something to offer aren’t afraid of sex because they have used their time EARNING skills and knowledge that make them interesting rather than using their sex to steal whatever they can get.
Women who rely only on their sexuality to get ahead in life, don’t deserve any respect. Don’t give it to them, it could be dangerous for you.
The End