In other words, the 'act' is over in a couple of minutes.

If this is the case, Your partner has 'erectile disfunction', (a sort of impotency)
below is a short list of the 'top excuses' you will constantly hear from him, if you decide to believe him.
If you don't have a clue as to what 'Microwave Sex is' (I made up the term anyway)
I do hope you 'Pay attention' to the symptoms.......

1. You will be told, within minutes of love making, "Ooooooh You are so beautiful,
and you make me feel so good". Moments later, he has climaxed, and you will be left thinking,
'Whew!! is that all? Yes it is, and if you don't do something about it soon that is all you will experience forever.

2.Or He will say, "I love you so much, you do strange things to me",
(seconds later its all over) He is fine, but are you?

3. Or, he might be 'momentarily frank', and say, "lets do it quick this time,
and I will make it up to you later tonight",
( forget it, he will be fast asleep when night comes with some excuse or the other)

4.He might say, "Honey you are irresistable, its hard for me to control myself".
(He means this, but can't hold back the ejaculation)

5.Or, "holding you in my arms, is like holding heaven".
(He means this, but he has to go to sleep, either because he is fatigued or embarassed).


DO NOT FALL FOR THE "Honey you are too hot to handle bit".
He is either in denial about his problem, Or is trying to pull the wool over your eyes.
If you really care about 'yourself and your partner'. Get him to get help
Although making him seek help is one of the most difficult tasks.
Believe me it does not get any better, if you don't

"One of the most wonderful lessons you should learn is that 'You are not alone'. Finding and developing a strong network of women who are dealing with the same issues is incredibly powerful".

'MICROWAVE SEX' is becoming more and more common, and the sad part is, the cause tends to embarrass both persons involved. The female, (as usual does not want to hurt 'the male ego') The male, refuses to believe the situation, his manhood under scrutiny. This keeps them from discussing the situation. And is also the reason why most people go looking to see if the grass is greener on the other side. There is a lot of greener grass out there. But do your best to make him see the light, before he goes gardening elsewhere.
check them out in your own time
Especially for Men
Men have it too

It is not funny, 95% of the women I have spoken to 'FAKE IT'
or just lie down and wait for it to be over,
after having given up trying to explain what they really like.

A Hilarious Look at Viagra

by Dr. Marty Klein

Rapid, or "premature," ejaculation describes a situation in which a man frequently climaxes sooner than he wants.

Don't distract yourself during sex to prevent climaxing too soon. If your partner comes too quickly, don't take it personally. If the woman orgasms first, there's less pressure for the man to last a long time.

The definition foreshadows the problem: what if someone wants to last for an hour? Some men and women have such unrealistic expectations. The pressure to perform can trigger the ejaculation they wish to delay. Pressure is also created by the common belief that sex is over when the man ejaculates.

Most people agree that a man who usually climaxes within seconds of insertion has a problem. But how many minutes must a man last in order to be problem-free? It's completely subjective. Instead of measuring by the clock, consider the reasons behind a speedy climax.

Rapid ejaculation sometimes reflects psychological issues, such as fear of sex or women, self-consciousness or guilt about desires. It's as if the body is saying, "I'm uncomfortable doing this, so let's get it over as soon as possible." For other men, simple inexperience is the cause: they thrust as hard as they can without thinking, assuming that the point of sex is to get as excited as possible as quickly as possible. Secretive, rushed masturbation trains many men for this kind of quick release.

Most rapid ejaculators attempt to distract themselves during sex, thinking this will reduce the perceived stimulation and delay the orgasm. But these men need to focus more on what's actually going on: the sensation in their penis, their breathing, level of excitement, connection with their partner, etc. Doing this in a supportive environment will reduce the anxiety and slow down the ejaculation reflex.

When male orgasm is seen as one part of a larger sexual interaction, quick ejaculation is not so upsetting. Precede intercourse with plenty of other sexual activity, or at least with the kind of sex that usually gives a woman an orgasm. If people feel they have plenty of pleasure before the man ejaculates, they'll be less distressed if he comes quickly.

Marty Klein, Ph.D., is a licensed marriage counselor and sex therapist in Palo Alto, Calif. He has written for national magazines and appeared on many TV shows, including Donahue, Sally Jessy Raphael and Jenny Jones. You can read more about his books, tapes and appearances on his Web site, www.SexEd.org.

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