Never have I wished for blind submission from anyone. Never have I hungered for acquiescence based on stupidity. Never once have I had an inclination to Dominate a stick of furniture, no matter how attractive it may seem at first glance or in the flicker of candlelight! Never have I desired a slave who lacked the joy and humor found in life. Never have I yearned for a dull, boring Neanderthal to trudge at my side. Lastly, never have I laid awake at night dreaming of owning a human lump of fragile clay who is lacking the lust and luster of exploration.

If the above paragraph seems negative to you, as some might say, I take issue with your prospective. To my way of thinking --- and in this case, my way is the only way --- it is an absolutely positive attitude. Due to the very fact I seek an astute, perceptive, quick witted, bright, intelligent and positively submissive male in my life rather than a doormat-on-a-leash confirms my confident nature.

Intelligence is the ability to acquire knowledge. In a Female/male BDSM or D/s relationship, the Dominant partner 'educates' the submissive partner to appreciate Her unique idiosyncrasies. One could easily maintain that he, the submissive, is mentally metamorphosed in Her Image. The thoughts he has are for Her pleasure, his deeds are to meet Her desires, the punishments he receives are to reinforce Her vision of proper behavior on his part. What may have been considered outlandish to the submissive prior to his education will become an intricate part of his personality. What would have been unthinkable becomes the focus of his sexual proclivity and penchant.

Who would desire to lick toe jam from an odoriferous appendage that has been encased in a pair of dirty, sweaty canvas Keds? Or ravenously seek toes which have been penned in a pair of leather boots and now stink to high heaven? A slave or submissive who has been meticulously trained in the fine art of Foot Worship craves his Owners feet! To him, Her feet and their taste, texture, aroma --- or the mere sight of them, naked and elegant in their form --- creates a spontaneous sexual desire which is unquenchable until, when and if, She allows him to caress, suck, and experience his mouth being fucked by Her wondrous foot. Perhaps as one magnificent foot fucks his pathetic mouth, the other crushes his balls or massages his now fully erect, blood engorged, and throbbing cock. He may or may not be allowed to ejaculate. Her mood and his past behavior will determine his climax; or anticlimax, as the case may be.

A submissive who is not a cross dresser by his own design will learn, if he is intelligent, to crave forced feminization. It is humiliating to most men to be commanded to wear silks and satins, camisoles and thigh high stocking, girdles and high heel shoes. Yes, it is. Stripping away the 'manhood' of a macho-man and baring the essence of the person inside takes time and patience on the Dominants part. The rebuilding of his shattered ego is akin to reinforcing the goodness in him, bringing out the best in him, and is done with skill and compassionate, loving care. As a potter tenderly molds wet clay into a thing of beauty, so is the molding of a submissive male. One strips to the core and then, layer by thin layer, transforms him into Her own creation! Her own image …

Can a doormat be thought to properly worship at the feet of a Woman of Dominance? I suppose if the doormat were told again and again or punished many time he, or she, would eventually grasp the concept of worship. The concept, perhaps, but the true and pure essence would escape the doormats limited ability to urgently desire the worship!

My dogs are be taught to sit, beg, go to their beds, not pee in the house and come when called. I have a dog by the name of Bear who refused to come when called. For three days I put him on a chain outside and the chain was attached to a choke collar. Each time I wanted Bear to come, I would call but once. If the little brat sat and looked at me as if I were speaking Chinese, I yanked the chain which yanked the choke collar which gave him quite a start. He's learned quickly to come when called. If he has a memory lapse I just rattle the chain and he comes flying to me. He's intelligent enough to know the chain equals pain but not smart enough to realize he is not attached to the damn thing!

A submissive who does worship by rote is much like my Bear. He, or she, knows it will hurt if s/he doesn't do it but they don't fathom the benefits realized if the worship is done from the heart rather than fear. The slaves' Goddess is only path to a balanced life! With balance comes peace, with peace comes joy, and with joy one walks on a higher plane in every aspect of life!

EMAS ESAM --- The Master Owns the Slave, The Slave Owns the Master. I did not pluck that from air. I think some wise Greek said it about two thousand years ago. EMAS ESAM --- where would the Goddess be without Her subject? What good is a Goddess if She has no slave at her feet? EMAS ESAM --- the slave must have pride in his Goddess and the Goddess must be proud of her slave. One is not complete without the other.

Intelligent Obedience is the higher plane on which a submissive walks if he, or she, strives to please the Goddess/Master/Mistress as a matter of thought rather than by rote. I seek he who seeks to please and relishes the important role he is to play in my life because he understands. Understanding takes a smart man --- or woman!

MzAnna

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