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L'Amour Courtois

Courtesy, Manners, and Courtly Love in the SCA

 
The SCA is founded upon three principles: Chivalry, Courtesy, and Honor. We recognize skill in battle, perfection of an art or science, and service to the Realm with the highest honors, but underlying all of these deeds and accomplishments is the ideal we all strive for... that being gentleness, grace, noble bearing, and confidence in the Dream. We think of the middle ages as being a time where men were bold and women beautiful, where a king could rally his troops to go conquer a country, and a lady's gentle touch could inspire a man to slay a dragon. Truly, our images of the past are romantic and filled with thoughts of a nobler and somewhat more idyllic time, when people were rewarded for good deeds, and everyone lived happily ever after.
The truth be known, the middle ages were harsh and full of uncertainty. It was a violent time full of social unrest, religious persection, and the threat of imminent death from the plague. But, our time is much the same and we live our lives in blissful ignorance of the deeds our "knights" undertake each day overseas. We forget that love and chivalry thrive around us, in our actions toward others and in the way we comport ourselves. We are walking examples of nobility, grace, charm, gentleness, and goodness.
Below you will find links to SCA pages where peers and gentles in the SCA have written articles about chivalry, courtesy, love, and honor. I will also add my two-cents worth of commentary. You are known by your deeds. The SCA gives you plenty of opportunities to be brave, valiant, kind, noble, helpful, loving, understanding, brilliant, funny, sensitive, and trustworthy. You just need to know where to look, how to act, and when to bow...
 

SCA Articles:

Chivalry for Women, by Elspeth MacNaughton
How to Be A Lady in Waiting, by Baroness Genevieve McCollum du Caen

Tokens and Favors in the SCA, written by Sarah MacGregor

Courtship and Courtly Love, or Dating Period Style, by Aline Swynbrook

The Pleasures of Cloven Fruit, adapted from "The Pleasures of Cloven Fruit" by Lady Maeve of Caernavon, 1982

The Instruction Booklet for Cloven Fruit, from Nadezhda

A Teenager's History of Love, from YM magazine

 


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