

My family grieved much this last week with the lost of our mom from this world. She passed away peacefully on the morning of Friday October 17, 1997 at the Woman's College Hospital.
She was a very giving woman whose heart and generosity touched all those that had a chance to get to know her. Many people had such an opportunity during the course of My mom's life: dear relatives, neighbours, siblings friends, classmates, checkout cashiers at Loblaws, and merchants in Chinatown. The only beings not touched by my Mom's irresistable smile were the street cats that she always shooed away.
Mom was born in 1933 in Sanhoi, China. She was orphaned at six years of age and adopted and raised by her grandmother together with two other siblings. She grew up in an era with tremendous love around her where common flus were major concern. She lived under the same rooftops during here 64 years on this planet with grandmothers, aunts, nephews and truly treasured those moments to associate and mingle with them.
For me, she was a a nice warm blanket that never smothered my direction in life. I was spoiled the whole time I was young and never realized it. In the last few years, I took here being somewhat for granted....I am a dreamer with many succesful dreams. I came back to Toronto after having worked in Ottawa for seven years to fulfill a promise to my mom to come back. I had opportunities to travel with her to my in-laws in the U.S. but had always wanted to go on a trip of discovery with both my parents to a place not seen by any of us and to explore together. I am sad to say in the end that I failed in this dream:
"Mom ....thank you for re-arranging my priorities and balancing out my life in the last little while...I'll have that kid really soon...We'll definitely visit. Mom...I know that you had a tear in your eye when you left us for heaven...but am comforted in the thought that you will be happly in the company of Peter, Grandmother, Grandfather and your parents that you have not seen in such a long time. Thank you for allowing us to grieve this last week as I know we would all like you to here for our own selfish reasons. You have had a full life down here and now you are free to travel anywhere your heart desires. Last, do not worry about me...I will never forget you and everything that your heart taught me"
Love, Ray
Mom
...by Rebecca
...translation by Lilian