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Requirements for subs in service to or training by Me



1.they will not speak until I acknowledge his/her presence. If there is any doubt as to whether or not I saw you enter, you may ask of the room, "is Mistress Inanna here?" to make sure that I have seen you or in case I have had to leave a message for you with Ssomeone else.

2. they will never ask any question of Me other than "may i ask a question of You Mistress?" first

3. they should not expect all of their actual serving of Me to be strict and structured, except in training. I like spontaneity in life and in My subs. For example, after you have been properly trained in the traditional rituals, I will not always expect a sub to present themselves to Me in an exact manner by rote at each meeting unless there has been some problem that is being corrected. Be original. Be a part of the D/s relationship instead of going through the motions that you have always used before or using what you have always 'heard' to be correct. Just keep in mind that you must always be respectful, flirty, friendly and show initiative in all that you do. I look for a certain fire and twinkle in the eyes and souls of My subs either male or female. *g*

4. one in My care should be willing to be there without the promise of a collar. I find that to be a very binding and emotional attachment that sometimes is ofen too quickly made in VT and can cause much heartache, especially to the dear little subs that live to serve. If Wwe decide that they will serve Me alone, there will some other type of acknowledgement of Oour relationship that will be clear to Oothers and this will be discussed at the appropriate time.

5. I will on occasion, if it feels 'right' to Aall concerned, take subs, male or female, bi, gay or straight, cross dressers, TV's into My care for training purposes only. I will NEVER offer to do this,c but will most always accept any serious requests for training.

6. There will be NO RT contact between My subs and Me. I live the lifestyle in the way I choose, and have commitments in RT already that I do not wish to infringe upon. Neither will I infringe on your RT life except as may be established in the limits and boundaries Wwe have decided on. I will be happy to chat online, either in rooms or on chat programs, and keep in touch via email. I Domme online to perfect My own skills and to explore new ideas. Choosing not to have RT contact in no way suggests that I do not take the VT relationships seriously or care about those in My service and care. If I didn’t care I wouldn’t be doing what I do.

7. The particulars of a sub’s limits and boundaries, will be discussed at such time as a sub asks to be allowed to serve Me or to train under Me and whether or not they want these pushed and how far will also be discussed.

8. I am not the Mistress you seek if you have any interest in scat, animals, incest, or bloodsport. Other than that, I will guide you in exploring most any fantasy or role playing scenario.

9. I am also open to helping couples/individuals come to terms with their fantasies and desires and ‘brainstorming’ ideas on helping their partner explore and understand their intimate desires. I prefer to deal with a couple together, but will consider working with only one, or one at a time if this is what the couple desires. In conjunction with this type of situation, I will also help in ‘training’ the new Dom(me) in such a relationship. It’s not something that comes easily to Some and any questions from Those interested in honing Their Dom(me) traits will be treated with utmost respect.

10. I am NOT a professional in either psychology, sexuality, marital counseling or therapy. I am not a medical doctor and any advice I give is just that, advice. I am a registered nurse with over 27 years of experience in both ER and as a public health nurse. My advice is based on common sense and of course, health is taken into consideration. It comes from My heart and always with the knowledge that those Wwe come in contact with online are REAL people, with real feelings, hopes, dreams and desires. They only want to share themselves fully with Tthose they love without judgments being made. And many are here in VT because they aren't able to do that yet. I find it sad that so many, especially men, must look for it with strangers, either in RT or VT. But because of this media, many are able to explore and hopefully integrate this part of Tthemselves into RT a bit more comfortably.

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