As I walked among a group of fellow Disciples through the hallway of a church during a regional gathering years ago, I overheard someone make a racist comment. I was appalled, and subsequently held a grudge against that person. He was not someone with whom I cared to associate.
A year or so later, at a men’s retreat in the same region, the program concluded with a communion service. The person leading the worship had us stand in a circle around the room. The idea is that two men, one from each side, would approach the table at the same time, then serve each other the bread and cup.
I looked and saw that my partner would be the man for whom I felt tremendous animosity. It would have been tempting to switch places with someone, but instead, I met him at the table, offered him the sacrament, and received it from him. There is a power in the act that overrules any and all human failures.
Today I read of the politicizing of communion that occurred at a Mass earlier this year when Douglas Kmeic was turned away from the table because of his support for presidential candidate Barak Obama. The “reasoning” of the priest was that Kmeic’s public endorsement of pro-choice Obama implied his standing at odds with the church’s position on abortion.
Kmeic is favoring Obama in spite of his pro-choice position because he feels the candidate’s views on “personal responsibility in sexual matters might change the nature of the nation’s argument on life issues.” While Kmeic has varied his political loyalties over the years, having supported both Robert Kennedy and Ronald Reagan, he has been a long-standing vocal critic of the Roe v. Wade decision by the U. S. Supreme Court.
Again, most priests and bishops likely would not have excluded Kmeic from communion, but why should anyone? The sacrament is not a “reward” for acceptable behavior. It isn’t a spiritual pill. It doesn’t make a person worthy to stand in the presence of God. As Kmeic points out, there are dangers in “using communion as a weapon.”
When Jesus met with his disciples in the Upper Room just prior to his arrest and execution, he told them, “When you eat and drink together, remember me.” Following the resurrection, there was something especially remarkable to remember about him. God’s power was at work in Jesus showing that even in spite of the sinfulness of humanity, God makes all things new, including life.
None of us has the authority to prevent anyone from celebrating that great hope. We all need to be there.
