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LETTING GO....

To ' Let go ' does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can not do it for someone else.

To ' Let go ' is not to cut myself off,
it is the realisation that I cannot control another.

To ' Let go ' is not to enable,
but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To allow one to make mistakes,
and not to condemn for their failure.

To ' Let go ' is to admit powerlessness,
which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To ' Let go ' is not to try to change or blame another,
it is to make the most of yourself.

To ' Let go ' is not to care for,
but to care about.

To ' Let go ' is not to fix,
but to be supportive.

To ' Let go ' is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.

To ' Let go ' is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To ' Let go ' is not to be protective,
it is to permit another to face reality.

To ' Let go ' is not to deny, but accept.

To ' Let go ' is not to nag, scold or argue,
but instead to search out my own shortcomings and, correct them.

To ' Let go ' is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.

To ' Let go ' is not to criticise and regulate anybody,
but to try to become what I dream I can be.

To ' Let go ' is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.

The ultimate to Letting go is to:

Fear less and Love more.

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