I have very beautiful dazzling hazel green eyes. I have short brownish red hair when I am not wearing braids. I am 5'7. I am a voluptuous woman. I am a BBW. I realize now that my previous sentence has probably bored most of you, but that is OK. I am not a Barbie and I do not and will not ever strive to be. I am fit and I am healthy. Just because I weigh more than most does not mean I cannot be fit and healthy.
I have accepted my weight and who I am as a person.I have learned that no matter what you can not please all of the people all of the time. I don't let what others think of me get to me. I know that most people consider a woman of my size to be very unhealthy and a health risk, but I am very healthy and very much alive and kicking. I feel that I am
capable of leading a very normal and healthy life at my size.
If you base your opnions on someone based merely because of their body size then that makes you no better then racists who judge people by thir skin color. I feel that the world is so messed up with major issues and worries without creating them. I have experienced a lot of rude remarks from thin people that think that the sight of me is disgusting and I will not lie, to hear comments like that hurts. It hurts very badly, but to respond or even answer back would only give them power over you and I will be damned if I give my power away and allow someone to make me feel inferior. People like that have nothing else going on in their lives. They are in a miserable place in life and they just want to take you down with them. I refuse to be unhappy or miserable.
SASSYCALIBBW'S MUSIC
I like all kinds of music. I feel that no matter what mood are in or how bad you may feel there is a song out there to lift your spirits and brighten your day.
I am into various types of music. I like the following groups/singers:Korn, Limp Bizkit, Papa Roach, DaftPunk, Anggun, NOA, Lambretta, Violet, ABBA, Alan Jackson, Dwight Yoakim, Clint Black, George Strait, Chemical Brothers, Metallica, Vitamin C,Bjork,Ana Voog, Bush, Tricky,Orgy,Lords Of Acid,Garbage, Third Eye Blind, Paula Cole, No Doubt, Jude,
Max Lorentz,Eagle Eye Cherry, Korrupt, L.L. Cool J, Lil Kim, Foxy Brown, Ice Cube, Dr. Dre, Snoop Dogg. I love trance, jungle, house, ambiance and jazz, techno, R&B, Rap and etc.. As you can see I LOVE MUSIC..
SASSYCALIBBW'S WEEKEND
AND AFTER HOUR PLEASURES
I love going to the movies. I love all kinds
of films from comedy, drama, action, foreign,
and very very artsy movies. I like theater. I
love the idea of someone getting on a stage
and portraying a character so well that it
leaves you feeling all chocked up and
emotional.I dance to all types of music and
hell I even two step from time to time. I
guess if I had to pic my favorite music to
dance to it would be hip hop. I spend a lot
of time at the beach since it is just down
the hill from me. I love seeing the tide come
in and watching the sun set. There is no
feeling like a witnessing a beuatiful sunset.
I get all chocked up.. I use to go on
weekend getaways to Oceanside and San Diego,
California. It was only a two hour drive from
where I lived in California , but
once I get there it feels like a true
vacation.
I love to swim also. I guess I am a
watergirl...LOL.I don't like to swim in the
ocean though.. Ocean water is unsafe. I love
renting a movie and just kicking back in my
living room and chiiling with my husband and
friends. I have a sincere interest in
modeling and doing voice over work, but at
this present time I do not have the time nor
the big bank to invest. Someday soon I will.
I just love to enjoy life. I am one of those
people where I will try anything once and if
I like it I will do it again. I love to be
happy and to laugh and make sure that
everyone around me has fun too. I am a very
sensitive, caring, loving, funny, sexy,
intelligent, career oriented, family oriented
woman and would be an asset to anyones circle
of friends. If you have a serious interest in
getting to find out more about me and my
interest just send me an email at the bottom
of the screen.
SASSYCALIBBW'S CONTACT INFORMATION
YAHOO MESSENGER: skyedancer4u
LIVING IT UP IN MESQUITE, TX
SASSYCALIBBW'S LAST WORD'S
It seems that all men online are wanting something that is obviously not within their reach otherwise they would have found it by now. The majority of men online are looking for thin/skinny model type women with little to no body fat. When the real deal is that there is only a small percentage of women online or in the world for that matter, that are that way. I have also gathered that they are getting very little responses if any to their ads for the simple fact that the majority of women who fit their profiles are out binging and purging somewhere and really do not have time to write. I am not bashing thin/skinny women. I just know for a fact the majority of their time is spent worried about their weight and how everyone else perceives them. Half of them do not even value their own self worth . They look to others to validate their self worth and beauty. I know I to suffer from the same fear, but I am atleast humble enough to admit that I have a problem and I am doing something about it. I do not live in denial. I often wonder if it's the body that you love so much about the women or is just the fact that you feel that you would not be accepted by society and your friends and family if you were to date a larger frame women..
To me caring about someone and loving someone and sharing apart of yourself with someone has very little to do with a size or a shape or a number. It has to do with the personality and heart and soul of a person. I feel that a lot of you men shut yourselves off from meeting the best thing that could ever happen to you because of fear of rejection from society because of a size, shape, or image.. Try something new ..explore different shaped women. All women are not the same. Just because a woman is thin/skinny it doesn't mean she is going to love you any more or less than a larger woman could.. This is just my observation. Please give me your input. Serious replies only.. No negativity needed
