I hope to find inspiration here... we shall see...
In the spirit of 'assisting, not resisting' I most want to suggest and promote the notion of 'predestiny' for I see in that knowledge the objectifying of fear, and therefore, the nullifying of it.

Patience is the cure for every disharmony...

Bad is 'bad' because it thinks it can 'out-control' good.

Good is 'good' because it knows control is an illusion.

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