Chances are she's close with the person she's talking to and she wants you to meet her friends. If it happens to be a male, she wants to show you that you can trust her with her male friends. She also by letting you meet him is trying to show you that she trusts you enough and likes you enough to have you meet her friends.
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2)You're at a girl's house that you like, you're both sitting in a room away from any adults, if any are even home, and you're sitting on a bed or couch. She turns on the tv and you lean in to try to kiss her, as she pulls away.
Most of the time you can tell by the look on the girl's face. If it's a scared look or just her looking at you with no smile, there could be a number of reasons. The most common ones are that she's scared because she's typically a slow-paced girl, mad at you for trying to pull something, or she doesn't feel ready for this next step yet. Try talking to her and asking her some questions. Leave the moves at that and maybe try letting her set the limits first.
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3) You take a girl to a resturant because she says she's hungry and was begging for food. You really like the girl and want to make her happy. You...
First of all, there are some things you should know. If a girl has to beg in order to get you to take her to get food, you have a problem right there. Girls typically will not only let guys eat when they want, but they cook it and serve it to them. If you can't even let a girl eat when she's hungry, you're going to have some future problems. Next, it's just an unwritten rule, that unless the girl argues with you otherwise, the guy pays for both people, weither he has the money to or not. Now depending on how stingy you are, you may set a budget, but whatever you do, do not come with $20 and say you can only spend $3 on her meal, it will catch on to you later on, and she will be pissed.
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4) You're walking with a bunch of your guy friends and one of your boy's girls and all of a sudden you see a girl that you think is sooo hot. You watch her for a little while and find out she's also a very sweet girl but is kind of shy. You...
Well, depending on the girl, if she seems shy, it's most likely better off if you approach her alone, yourself, and try to start small talk with her. Don't try pick up lines or anything because that could only lead to making her mad. If you want to make her laugh, find something to say or do that most likely won't offend her. Don't talk about other people, races, sexual activites, or drugs/alcohol. Those subjects, weither you know it or not, can offend people. Don't introduce her to your friends just yet. Ask her for her name, then tell her one moment while you run to your friends and ask them if you can have some alone time. Hopefully they'll leave and allow you two to talk. Sit down maybe to let her relax a little, she's probably pretty nervous right now, then offer to buy her something to eat or drink to get her mind off of the conversation so she can speak more freely. Don't rush into phone numbers and personal questions. Let her ask some of the first personal questions, then you can start on some basic ones, the from there, the rest is how the conversation flows.
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5) You've been dating a girl for a while now. It's a special day for both of you, it's an anniversary of you two dating (usually you remember 1 mo., 3 mo., 6 mo., year, 2 years, etc.). You...
Well considering on which anniversary it is, there are different things you can do. Never, and I mean NEVER, tell a girl you forgot just to get a rise out of her. Most likely, the day won't turn out as special as planned. If you've only been dating for a little while, maybe start off with something small. Buy her something like a stuffed animal, or chocolate or flowers, or something else she likes. Then go to the dinners and special rose surprises and things like that gradually throughout the relationship. Who knows, someday you may be taking this girl on a honeymoon. Better make each anniversary as special as possible.
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6) You call your girlfriend of a few months on the phone. She seems a little upset. She's nearly in tears but you don't know why. She's hardly able to talk when you ask why she's crying. You...
NEVER EVER hang up on a girl who's upset. Especially if she calls you while she's upset. The whole reason she's calling is because she needs some comforting. There are soooo many reason why she could be upset. Her dog could have died, she could have been raped, she could have gotten into a fight with a friend or family member, so many things. But what she really needs right now is your comfort. The best thing to do in this situation is listen to her. Don't try to make her talk. If you can, get to her house but make sure to ask her first if she wants you there. Sometimes a girl won't want you around because she's so upset and doesn't want you to see her like that. If you do show up, don't expect a lot out of her, remember, she's upset. If you can, bring her a little present to maybe cheer her up, then sit down with her and hold her and let her cry if she needs to. Talk to her very calmy and never get mad or yell at her. No matter what she says. Usually when a girl is crying, she just needs someone to hold on to and let her know that they're there for her no matter what.
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7) You and your girlfriend have done a lot of sexual things. You stop by her house and she's looking really nice tonight. Her parents are no where in sight and neither is anyone else. You both go to her room and sit down on the bed. You kiss her a few times and slowly the kiss gets more passionate as you're both on top of one another, then she stops and pulls away. You sit there wondering what's wrong with her...
Usually there are only two reasons for this to happen. Either the girl is PMSing and isn't feeling very good, or she just isn't in the mood because something is on her mind or because she's making herself not switch into that mood you guys like so much. Ask her what's wrong. If she says "nothing", then leave it at that but don't try to keep pushing her into what you had been trying to do. Let her just cuddle with you and relax. When she wants it, she'll let you know in her own ways, usually by saying something. If she says "nothing", she either doesn't know how to tell you what's on her mind, or she just doesn't want to talk about it. So just leave it at that and let her do the talking. If there gets to be a long silence, ask her if you can both turn on a radio or tv to listen to and/or watch.
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8) It's time for you both to part. You both kiss and she hugs you, burrying her face into your shoulder or chest. You tell her you really have to leave or you'll be late but she still doesn't let go, she just holds you close. You try to prie her off but she sticks to you like glue.
Usually in this case, she usually has something on her mind that's tearing her apart, and she wants to tell you or ask you but can't find the words to say it. If you try to ask her what's wrong, most likely she won't tell you and will make up some excuse. Try telling her what you really feel about her, right then at that moment, tell her everything. That usually comes out with three conclusions. She will either start crying because she knows how much you care about her or don't, she will let you leave and sit at the window watching you walk away till you're out of sight, or she will tell you what's on her mind. Another reaction she could have would be if she smiled and kissed you, a tear or two may slip out, but she's actually really happy. Remember, just because a girl is crying, doesn't mean she's sad. She could also be happy. You just have to learn to read facial expressions of each individual girl.
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