Since everyone thinks that I am there Personal advice guide, I decided to make my advice page if you have problem that needs solving, I am all ears!
Well, I dont have any questions as of now!
so get your questions in.Also, if you wish to remain anonymous just let me know.Or if you don't want me to know who you are just sign my guestbook and dont tell me who you are. although that makes it hard for me to really help you b.c I don't have the background on you. but either way that is cool!!
I am not a professional, if you have a serious problem, i probably wont be much help.
Lauren
EMail me @ the address at the bottom of the Page, or If you have icq, my # is26356011 you can leave your question on my guestbook!
Yay! I have two questions from the same person!and they are anonymous!! c'mon you guys!!
Dear Lauren,
My boyfriend acts like he likes me when we are alone, but when we are with his friends he acts like a such a jerk!, do you think I should leave him or give him an ultimatium? signed, Jerk Lover
Dear Jerk Lover,
I think you should talk to him and tell him that you feel embarassed and hurt when he treats you badly around his friends, and you deserve to be treated with respect at all times. Try to work things out, and if he refuses or refuses to listen, then you are better off without him Girl! Lauren
Dear Lauren,
ok this is my friend's problem, she doesnt have the internet, so I am asking. she is friends with this guy who is about three and a half years old. he graduated last year,(he was a senior when she was a freshman) he says that if she were older he would definately like her, but the age is too much. she thinks that if someone liked someone enough age shouldnt matter. I agree. What do you think? Younger girl's friend
Dear Friend,
I have to agree with you on that one! But it is his decision. and his loss if he doesnt want to date her. It could just be a rejection line,b.c she can't do anything about her age. Just tell her to continue to be his friend. Lauren
Lauren, please help me! I don't know what to do! I was dating this guy and I spent my weekends with another guy, but only about 2 hours on Friday and Saturday nights. This guy and I kissed and I broke up with the guy I was dating for the other one. I didn't think he was really serious about the kiss[es] and I started talking to his cousin (whom I had liked for awhile) and I made the mistake of telling him (the guy I kissed) that I liked his cousin. Now he isn't talking to me. He hasn't since December. What is your honest opinion?Anonymous
Well,
you definately screwed up there.You really shouldnt have told the kisser about the cousin. I really dont think that you can fix this one(I know who this is).For those with your jaw to the floor, let me just tell you this now. once trust is broken in a relationship then you can rarely get it back.You must have a seriously tight relationship. Relationships are built on a few things. Trust, Love,Being attracted to the other(let's face it what is a relationship with out attraction?) ,being able to have a good convo,and just general likingness. So right now i think you should just suck it up and get over it. You asked for honest opinions and you got it sweetheart!
Lauren
Hey there, I have a problem. There is this girl that I like very much at work, but I am not quit sure if she feels the same way I feel about her. Do you have any ideas to tell if this girl really likes me as I like her. I've taken her out once and it was alright, but at first I think she was uncomfortable with it. She asked my other friend if he was going, but he said no because he knew I wanted it to be just me and her. Also a bigger problem with her is that I think she is either sick or pregant, but she won't tell me anything. I want to help her, but she tends to keep things to herself. I don't care what the problem is because I care for her deeply. I just don't know what to do. Please help. Thanks in advance. Michael.
Dear Mike, Well I would just like to say that it is refreshing to hear of a guy that is so concerned and caring as you are. As for her liking you,I think that her willingness to go out with you is a good sign. As for her medical condition, don't try to pry. If she wants to tell you she will. First try to win her trust and become a friend,if she confesses to you, the best thing for you to do is just be there for her and show her you care. Try to see if she would like to hang out with you and some mutual friends sometimes, in a comfortable setting she will be more responsive. Good Luck.
Lauren
Lauren, I really like this guy I sit next to in Language Arts. We flirt a lot and he's really nice to me even in front of his friends, I've been friends with him for around nine months but he hasn't made a single move toward asking me out although I see his best friend whispering to him encouragingly and glancing at me. I've been thinking about making the first move but I'm afraid that I might scare him off or something which would also ruin our friendship. How can I tell if he likes me the same way I like him? Signed, Anonymous
Dear Anonymous,
I think you should continue to flirt with him in class and discreetly mention to him something about an upcoming event. Or ask him about something he is interested in and do a little homework to find out a little more about the subject. Also, you could try to talk to his friend and find out if he is interested and see if you could possibly get him to say a word or two to him! Good Luck! "In all thy ways acknowledge him and he shall direct thy paths."
Dear Lauren,
I have just recently broken up with my boyfriend and I think I like one of my cousin's friend's brother. He's two years older than me. Do you think it's wrong of me to just bounce back like that? Signed,Cutie Patooti
Dear Cutie,
I think that it is wonderful that you can move on from a bad relationship. I don't think that it is too soon for you to be interested in someone else. But I do think that you should take into consideration the feelings of your ex. Even you both do not like each other and it was a mutual break up, you finding a new man so soon could cause trouble.My advice to you is to take it slow with this new guy and get to know him well. Give you and your ex time to recover from your break up! And then go after him girl!!
Love, Lauren "In all thy ways acknowledge him and he shall direct thy paths."
A couple of Friday's ago, I broke up with my boyfriend. That same night I was at a friends house w/ some other friends. I met a guy. All of us there came up w/ an idea. The guy had a girl that liked him but everybody else hated her. That jerk i was w/ that broke w/ me had no reason to break up w/ me. The guy and I decided to pretend like we were giong out. The next day everyone was going to the movies (including my -ex and that girl. We French kissed and told everyone. We spent the rest of the evening together w/ friends. We kissed again but had no reason to. He was the one who wanted to kiss me. Does this mean he wants? I don't know if i'm falling in love w/ him. How do i tell him? How do I know he feels the same way? --Happily confused
First off I am sorry you broke up with your boyfriend. I also think that making him jealous wasn't the best way to go, but since you did this is how to handle it:Talk to your kissing partner and ask him about the second kiss.Tell him that you have been thinking a lot about it and you really enjoyed spending time with him, and would really like it if you could spend more time with him.This will give him an opportunity to tell you how he feels about the situation. Most importantly be casual about it. Try not to be so serious about it.And just be friendly, the worst thing he can say is no.If he does say no, you are better off without him, and it's his loss.If he says yes then go for it!!! Lauren "In all thy ways acknowledge him and he shall direct thy paths."
