They lived through sad times with eight children in a small house restricted in choice and quality of goods unable to voice opinions, show individuality their children, friends, spouses died for their country Now they share telling their stories to foreigners, almost smiling speaking through a translator, or alone in faltering English gifting us with pieces of them. Does it hurt, remembering those times? If it hurts, is it more important that we hear? and perhaps, through their sharing, we will learn.