The root of being sexually pure is to be pure in heart. To be pure before God, to follow Him in every aspect of life... that is what is meant to be pure in heart. As it says in Psalm, we should seek the face of God. We need to pursue Him and ask Him what He would have us do. When we abide in Christ and follow Him, He will lead us where we need to be. When we show God that we want to have a serious relationship, and get to the point where you are statisfied if it was just you and God, then and only then can you even be remotely ready for a romance. You may be as content as you may be, really and truly alright with not getting married, and then you may wonder why you have to wait so long for Mr. Right. Sometimes, you have to wait for him. Don't worry if everyone gets married or has boyfriends before you. Don't feel as if you're doing something wrong. It's all about God's timing. And that's part of being pure in heart... accepting what He believes is best in your life. If you can do that... if you can remain a steady relationship with God and seek His face, then you're on the right track. Then you will be set for a lifestyle of purity. Together, let's discover purity, exactly what it is, and what your plan for it is.