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My name is Ken and I used to be 38 years old. I don't plan on updating this website information therefore I will always remain about 38 years old LOL! I am athletic and enjoy a very limited schedule of sports such as softball, basketball and water skiing. I have been divorced about 8 years and have two loving children Diondra Blansit 14 and Travis Blansit 12. My daughter, Diondra, a Straight A student, lives with me and my son visits about 40% of the time.
My approach to dating people I meet online is rather simple and here are two things I think about.
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I put no expectations on what will come from meeting. Needless to say, having an idea of what someone is like based upon conversations on a computer is limited and rarely does someone send a photo that truly represents them. On a brighter note often people seem more amiable when met in person. |
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look at the 1st meeting as if I were meeting a new friend. Someone I had
things in common with but had never met.
If there is no love connection then hopefully there's a friendship made. When I started dating after my divorce, I approached dating with the
thought of "This could be the one" and here I sit 8 years later, still
single yet happy even though I am alone. Have high expectations and its a
further fall when disappointed. I am content with my life as a single father who gets an occasional chance to date. If you are single too, I am sure you can relate to the times when you miss adult company and other times you don't miss it. Time seems to fly by and I don't know if I have time to fall in love with someone again. You have to know someone pretty well to fall in love so meeting a complete stranger means it will take time. Love and lust are two very different feelings and I think I know the difference and you probably do to. That may explain why I only married and divorced once. The marriage lasted 10 years which seams like a long time but isn't a marriage supposed to last a lifetime? Lust on the other hand may only last a nighttime. I would be happy to meet and date any attractive lady and if we just become friends that is ok. If you ask me to define "attractive" I can simply say, " there are many things both physical and spiritual that make one attractive". I may be attracted by a ladies physical appearance or by her personality. I think the personality appeal was once referred to as charm. I am seeking a long term relationship or marriage BUT I am also very realistic about the process in which you meet "The Right One". I try to balance time for my children with some time for myself and when I don't have special plans I simply enjoy my time with my kids even more. I think I will have to trip over the right lady because I have very little time to go hunt one down. I like the phrase treat others as you would like to be treated. |
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