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Source p. 9, Jul / Aug 2009 - The Path of Truth (Young Ideas)
Have you ever noticed how much we criticise those about us?
Psychologists tell us that we blame in others what we dislike in ourselves, so next time you find yourself condemning someone, just pause and examine yourself to see if you might not have behaved in a similar way under similar circumstances.
If, for example, you criticise snobs, ask yourself if you, too, are not inclined to be snobbish? You must, naturally, be completely honest with yourself when you make this examination... You must not make excuses for yourself, which is something most of us are liable to do.
When people behave in a way of which no one can approve, we may disapprove of their behaviour, but not of the people themselves. We are commanded to LOVE our neighbours, and there are no conditions added to this commandment. We are not told to love them if they are lovable... there are no "ifs". We often have no idea why folks behave in the way they do. The reason may lie in something that occurred in their childhood.
We cannot see into their minds as a rule, and without knowing all the circumstances, and the experiences which they have had, how can we be fit to judge?
The Bible tells us to judge not if we would not be judged, and how many of us are so blameless that no one could find fault with us? Not one! Think of this next time you find yourself wanting to criticise someone's behaviour. Instead of pinning your attention to his shortcomings, think of your own and determine to correct them.
Let us learn to look for the good in our fellowmen. The Christ Spirit is in each one of us though there may be times when we have to delve deeply to find it. Instead of condemning, let us try to uplift those who have done wrong.
We can, of course, criticise if our criticism is constructive, for then it is helpful, but destructive criticism helps no one. But let us be sure that even our constructive criticism is given gently and kindly... let us be as encouraging as we can, while still being truthful.
Yours,
June
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