Best Friends and beyond.......
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We started out with just a hello and as we talked more our trust and friendship grew.Little did we know then that our harrassing and even our joking about 
(which would become our strange little thing.*G* would lead to what we have today.We had our share of disagreements but always kept in touch and eventually realized we could say what we felt and thought without the other judging.And boy can we talk.HAHA!!.You like to surprise me and the worse was when you showed up at the door early,standing in the rain. I didn't know whether to hug you or kick your ass.LOL.
We have made so many memories in such a short time yet none are the extravagent ones people always remember. It is all the simple things we do.Walking down town,going for a drive and acting as if we are louis and clark and we never get lost like the day we went to the store and came back hours later after having such a romantic and fun time at the beach 
,walking and playing and then sitting close watching the sunset until the wind came up.We didn't want to leave.*sigh* It was a perfect day doing nothing.(and i did let you catch me!!!*G*)Have we ever just went where we said and came right back???*G* Who else but us would go to the park for breakfast on a cold morning,having to walk across a flooded road and have a picnic of coffee and muffins and enjoy it so much?
The rainy windy day we went down to the bridge and went to the lookout
then had a gourmet meal of fries and hotdogs sitting in the car while the rain splattered off the roof and the windows fogged up.Was a wonderful day!!
Who else has gone on a date to the movies without leaving their home and their "date" is 1200 miles away?Watching it together via phone was great.haha who else but us?????LOL (hmmmm we are nuts!!!)
And when we are together we find so much joy in just slumming and drinking beer and pigging out watching movies.(well most of them anyways!)We laugh,smile,cry and just take things as they come and deal with it and make the best of what we have.
Our trip to Niagra was definatley an adventure in how we can find happiness and laughs in anything.This little Motel
was just as good as the fanciest hotel in niagra to us.Our fireplace was like no other and i still smile and laugh at us around it.VBS.
As many times as i have seen the falls
with you it was like seeing and experiencing it for the first time.*S*You always refer to this as *Our Honeymoon* and it felt that way.I am still sooooo happy that guy never had a interac machine.LMAO.Then your 3rd visit when you surprised me for an early xmas present,it was the best thing you could have given me.I must say you sure are sly.heheh.We are both hopeless romantics and have our little routines that we faithfully do each visit before you leave
and you always make sure they are done.As you say it is our way of knowing you will once again return *home*VBS. Each song we hear brings a special memory back to us as we recall what we where doing or where we were at the time.Even a KFC arking lot brings back wicked thoughts.hehe.You put so much meaning into little things and always make me smile if i am down.When you first came your #1 concern was the kids reaction and you showed them so much respect and they took to you right away.Of course by the 3rd. visiting you had them all doing fart sounds around the dining room table at dinner time.heheheYou have a little silly for each of them that they associate with you.Maddie it is razzberries,
Kassie it is roadkill and bug zappers 
haha and keegan trains and "Bastard"puter games*G*
.You have allowed me to be in your kids lives
via puter,phone and through pics.They all have such a wonderful imagination which you allow them to use to their full ability.I can't wait to meet them and spend time with them this summer. esp. since you guys will be treating us girls to pizza after WE WIN the water fight.*EG* You are a wonderful friend,lover and partner.We have such respect for each other and feel the same about a lot of things including raising of family and the role in a relationship. From our friendship came a great trust that we had not had before with others and are safe and secure in our dreams for the future.I made you a small memory quilt for christmas 
and you said as our love and dreams and memmories of times together grow so shall the quilt until it becomes OUR quilt.We have what most people only hope for yet it is not that much in terms of monetary or material value. Everything comes from the heart.The nite we played unchained melody and you took my hand and asked me to dance and even after the music stop we continued.*sigh*Every touch,look and even silent moment means something.I love you mark with all my heart and soul and i know that the love is returned not only with words but with actions.
Just like the words in our song..*You've Got a Way....just the feelings inside of us.VBS
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